"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wait untill date to speak?

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Devilish_Nitro

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Hey

Just after a yes or no really on what I should do. Ok got this girls number and found out that she works in the same company as me. Been emailing to each other and set a date up.

What Im wondering is, should I email her between now and the date or should I just leave it. I can't act like Im doing something else becuase Im at work and could email anyone, anytime so thats out of the window :)

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You've got her number just call her.
 
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Devilish_Nitro

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Thanks for the replys.

I mean should I email her everyday so I can get to know alot about her or just play it cool with one or 2 emails.
 
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If you are at work, shouldn't you be working. Play it like you have a life and don't email her.
 
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Devilish_Nitro

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Ok cheers guys,

She hasn't emailed me and Ive been the first to email her yesturday and the day before. So i won't email her or get in contact with her for a bit I guess.

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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