"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wait untill date to speak?

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Devilish_Nitro

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Hey

Just after a yes or no really on what I should do. Ok got this girls number and found out that she works in the same company as me. Been emailing to each other and set a date up.

What Im wondering is, should I email her between now and the date or should I just leave it. I can't act like Im doing something else becuase Im at work and could email anyone, anytime so thats out of the window :)

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PRMoon

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You've got her number just call her.
 
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Devilish_Nitro

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Thanks for the replys.

I mean should I email her everyday so I can get to know alot about her or just play it cool with one or 2 emails.
 
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If you are at work, shouldn't you be working. Play it like you have a life and don't email her.
 
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Devilish_Nitro

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Ok cheers guys,

She hasn't emailed me and Ive been the first to email her yesturday and the day before. So i won't email her or get in contact with her for a bit I guess.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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