"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wait till we get married

addidasss

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I've been with this girl on the side. She likes me i'm sure. when we make out, everything is good. We kiss, we cuddle, i suck her tits, caress her butt. When i go for the sex part, she wouldn't want me to do it. she stops me. she says it's not good time and that we should wait till we're married. How do you get her to loosen up and let herself go and enjoy the fun all the way. I know she's horny like crazy during the make out. she knows the same thing.

why do girls use sex as a hook to get a guy to marry her?
shouldn't she test the car to make sure it drives well before she buys it?

Help me on this one because i want to go pass the make out and beyond.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Desdinova

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Sounds like a religious chick to me. If you want her to cave in, make HER want the sex. You can do this by doing everything to her EXCEPT initiate sex.

Go read Sir_Chancealot's advanced sexual techniques. Try bringing her to orgasm without sex. Make her desperately want it enough that she caves in.

Granted, this kinda thing takes time to pull off. Make sure you've got some other women going for you if you're going to try reaching this goal.
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Read the DJ Bible and do a few searches before you post again.

JC Jerkson

I love it!!! :D Some really deserve to be scolded like little children for not following instructions.
 

NewMan

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stop waisting your time and effort on this woman.

There are many more out there that will give you what your looking for.

Don't fall into the trap of thinking she's superior to other women - and don't fall into the trap of wanting somethign you can't have (pvssy). It's probably not worth the effort it's going to take anyways.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i can't let her go yet. she cooks for me. she's the only one of two girls that cooks for me of all the gals i've been with.
 

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because her mother says "why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free"?
 

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That's one line i won't cross. If she's religous and wants to wait until marriage... Let her wait until marriage. It's part of her religious belief that she's going to hell if she ****s you! damn.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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only thing that does not want her for long run is she's been married once and divorced but no children. I don't want to marry someone who's been married. I've never been married myself.

my question is why would a girl who's been married once value virginity so much?
 

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wait wait wait, i dont get it adidasss, so acorrding to what youre saying, if a girl gets married and losses virginity then gets divorced and she gains her virginity again? :confused:



come on man, its simple... shes desperate to get married again, she wont have sex with you because shes wishing that you will want it that much that you will eventually marry her to get pusy.
 

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hey, she just got with me at my apartment. she brought her special cooking. we ate. i loved her food. then we made out. she got so horny and made so crazy sound. i grinded her like crazy and she went more and more wild. then she stopped me when i tried to unzip her pants.

what do i do?

i asked her why she stopped me? she said not the right time. after marriage we can do.

i asked her "don't you want to know how i perform before you marry me?"

she responded "i believe you'll perform well. that i'm not worried."

me to her "but we're not doing it, how do you know so well? if you were to buy a car, wouldn't you want to test drive the car first before you buy it?"

she burst into laugh. it was all fun, but no sex.

what do i do guys?
 

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dont push it too much, back off a bit and let the ball be in her court. Its up to her to make that decision, but for now start looking around for a different mate.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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