"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wait till we get married

addidasss

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I've been with this girl on the side. She likes me i'm sure. when we make out, everything is good. We kiss, we cuddle, i suck her tits, caress her butt. When i go for the sex part, she wouldn't want me to do it. she stops me. she says it's not good time and that we should wait till we're married. How do you get her to loosen up and let herself go and enjoy the fun all the way. I know she's horny like crazy during the make out. she knows the same thing.

why do girls use sex as a hook to get a guy to marry her?
shouldn't she test the car to make sure it drives well before she buys it?

Help me on this one because i want to go pass the make out and beyond.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Desdinova

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Sounds like a religious chick to me. If you want her to cave in, make HER want the sex. You can do this by doing everything to her EXCEPT initiate sex.

Go read Sir_Chancealot's advanced sexual techniques. Try bringing her to orgasm without sex. Make her desperately want it enough that she caves in.

Granted, this kinda thing takes time to pull off. Make sure you've got some other women going for you if you're going to try reaching this goal.
 

Gangster Of Love

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Read the DJ Bible and do a few searches before you post again.

JC Jerkson

I love it!!! :D Some really deserve to be scolded like little children for not following instructions.
 

NewMan

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stop waisting your time and effort on this woman.

There are many more out there that will give you what your looking for.

Don't fall into the trap of thinking she's superior to other women - and don't fall into the trap of wanting somethign you can't have (pvssy). It's probably not worth the effort it's going to take anyways.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i can't let her go yet. she cooks for me. she's the only one of two girls that cooks for me of all the gals i've been with.
 

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because her mother says "why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free"?
 

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That's one line i won't cross. If she's religous and wants to wait until marriage... Let her wait until marriage. It's part of her religious belief that she's going to hell if she ****s you! damn.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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only thing that does not want her for long run is she's been married once and divorced but no children. I don't want to marry someone who's been married. I've never been married myself.

my question is why would a girl who's been married once value virginity so much?
 

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wait wait wait, i dont get it adidasss, so acorrding to what youre saying, if a girl gets married and losses virginity then gets divorced and she gains her virginity again? :confused:



come on man, its simple... shes desperate to get married again, she wont have sex with you because shes wishing that you will want it that much that you will eventually marry her to get pusy.
 

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hey, she just got with me at my apartment. she brought her special cooking. we ate. i loved her food. then we made out. she got so horny and made so crazy sound. i grinded her like crazy and she went more and more wild. then she stopped me when i tried to unzip her pants.

what do i do?

i asked her why she stopped me? she said not the right time. after marriage we can do.

i asked her "don't you want to know how i perform before you marry me?"

she responded "i believe you'll perform well. that i'm not worried."

me to her "but we're not doing it, how do you know so well? if you were to buy a car, wouldn't you want to test drive the car first before you buy it?"

she burst into laugh. it was all fun, but no sex.

what do i do guys?
 

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dont push it too much, back off a bit and let the ball be in her court. Its up to her to make that decision, but for now start looking around for a different mate.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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