"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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skan_king

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Right i like to keep it short so a very short background on my situation.
I've been messing about with this girl (A friend of my friendship group) we hooked up on new years. We have been messing around since then mostly kissing NO SEX! Which is where my problem ls! She has been the one initiating about 90 percent of the conversation IM/Text mostly and also the meet ups. I hadn't spent the night with her as she gets up crazy early for work and i don't like mornings! So last week she asked why i never stay and said she really wanted me in her bed. So last night i decided to stay. We went to bed and started to cuddle make out and dry hump but as soon as i started trying to get my hand in her pants she pulled it out! Not sure why she would invite me to bed and not want to put out. Is she just playing me as a cuddle *****? If she is i am walking as i have no problem getting girls but quite like this one and feel i haven't quite got what i want out of it yet.

Not quite as short as i thought it would be.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

nismo-4

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Teasing prude.

She's making you wait for sex and trying to control you with it. Not good. Unfortunately, she's just using you for attention. She's not really interested in you sexually. Sorry. You're at best friends with a glass ceiling. It's best to just go ghost on her because she got the hots for a man who's better than you, but just isn't available to her. The sexual desire is not there.

Watch the actions, not the words. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed.
 

Vidrio

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Leave. You're wasting your time. While you're waiting on her you could be out fcking multiple other girls.
 
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