"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Wait or leave?

skan_king

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Right i like to keep it short so a very short background on my situation.
I've been messing about with this girl (A friend of my friendship group) we hooked up on new years. We have been messing around since then mostly kissing NO SEX! Which is where my problem ls! She has been the one initiating about 90 percent of the conversation IM/Text mostly and also the meet ups. I hadn't spent the night with her as she gets up crazy early for work and i don't like mornings! So last week she asked why i never stay and said she really wanted me in her bed. So last night i decided to stay. We went to bed and started to cuddle make out and dry hump but as soon as i started trying to get my hand in her pants she pulled it out! Not sure why she would invite me to bed and not want to put out. Is she just playing me as a cuddle *****? If she is i am walking as i have no problem getting girls but quite like this one and feel i haven't quite got what i want out of it yet.

Not quite as short as i thought it would be.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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nismo-4

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Teasing prude.

She's making you wait for sex and trying to control you with it. Not good. Unfortunately, she's just using you for attention. She's not really interested in you sexually. Sorry. You're at best friends with a glass ceiling. It's best to just go ghost on her because she got the hots for a man who's better than you, but just isn't available to her. The sexual desire is not there.

Watch the actions, not the words. Judge nismo's ruling.

Case closed.
 

Vidrio

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Leave. You're wasting your time. While you're waiting on her you could be out fcking multiple other girls.
 
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