duffman360
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after i say hi and introduce myself what do i talk about before getting her number
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wait i'm missing a step
- Thread starter duffman360
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
you actually have to focus on getting to know her and entering her comfort zone before you can ask for a number.
you usually can't get one right away, so work on connecting with her and making her laugh and stuff before you ask.
If you're not naturally good at this the first time, you may have to wait a couple chats to get a number... but go for it anyway
you usually can't get one right away, so work on connecting with her and making her laugh and stuff before you ask.
If you're not naturally good at this the first time, you may have to wait a couple chats to get a number... but go for it anyway
duffman360
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what i also notice that she some times brings a skate board with her to school so i could use her interest in skating to my advantage "conversation starter"
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
yeah that would be good... what kind of a girl is this anyway?
duffman360
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she is a bit shorter than me but she has a nice figure " curves"
im like 5'5 and she is like 5'3
im like 5'5 and she is like 5'3
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
no I meant what's her character like?
duffman360
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i have not gotten to know her personality i have just seen what is on the outside
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
infatuation is where it all begins...