duffman360
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after i say hi and introduce myself what do i talk about before getting her number
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wait i'm missing a step
- Thread starter duffman360
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
you actually have to focus on getting to know her and entering her comfort zone before you can ask for a number.
you usually can't get one right away, so work on connecting with her and making her laugh and stuff before you ask.
If you're not naturally good at this the first time, you may have to wait a couple chats to get a number... but go for it anyway
you usually can't get one right away, so work on connecting with her and making her laugh and stuff before you ask.
If you're not naturally good at this the first time, you may have to wait a couple chats to get a number... but go for it anyway
duffman360
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what i also notice that she some times brings a skate board with her to school so i could use her interest in skating to my advantage "conversation starter"
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
yeah that would be good... what kind of a girl is this anyway?
duffman360
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she is a bit shorter than me but she has a nice figure " curves"
im like 5'5 and she is like 5'3
im like 5'5 and she is like 5'3
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
no I meant what's her character like?
duffman360
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i have not gotten to know her personality i have just seen what is on the outside
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
infatuation is where it all begins...