"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wait for sex?

PackDaddy

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Hi DJ's, I recently just took this girl out. The chemistry is present, and so far we're into each other. I'm gonna take her out again, and am not just trying to get my d1ck wet. So how long do I wait?

By the way, at the end of the day when I went to drop her off she thanked me. She told me she had a lot of fun and then shoved her tongue in my mouth, and we groped each other. If it continues this way we're gonna f@ck real soon. However, I don't want her to think I'm only trying to F her. I also don't want to screw things up by F'ing to early. I'm so used t being a playboy that I don't know how to date now lol.

So DJs, what do I do??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheException

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Wait for sex? LOOOOOOL

Dude......so she didnt even tell you like "Hey lets go slow" or "I like to take things slow"....your just trying to put some form of ban on yourself? Read the link above, heartiste is good sh1t. Dont put any time cap on it...just go with it and always be escalating. Dont force sex to happen but always work towards it.
 

PackDaddy

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Thank You! You guys are correct, 100%.

Pulled my head out of my ass. 4 words. Don't be a *****. Plain and simple.

I was behaving as if she was a gem; as if she was a scarce item. Tons more where she came from that I can choose from.

Exactly! What am I trying to do? Wife her up?! Lmao
 

Tomthebomb

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PackDaddy said:
Hi DJ's, I recently just took this girl out. The chemistry is present, and so far we're into each other. I'm gonna take her out again, and am not just trying to get my d1ck wet. So how long do I wait?

By the way, at the end of the day when I went to drop her off she thanked me. She told me she had a lot of fun and then shoved her tongue in my mouth, and we groped each other. If it continues this way we're gonna f@ck real soon. However, I don't want her to think I'm only trying to F her. I also don't want to screw things up by F'ing to early. I'm so used t being a playboy that I don't know how to date now lol.

So DJs, what do I do??
What you are saying is completely mental. be a man, have sex with her, never apologise for your make sexuality - own it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil

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As long as she shows DEFINITE signs of interest (like she has in this case) then it's ok to wait up to 2 months. After that she has another guy and/or other issues.

The Russian girl who I rented a room from in NYC made me wait 3 weeks after we met.
 

Cremasta

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If someone put your dinner down in front of you, how long would you wait to eat it?

Next date, just make sure you pick her up from her place, so you've got a good reason to be back there at the end of the night.
 
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