Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hi DJ's, I recently just took this girl out. The chemistry is present, and so far we're into each other. I'm gonna take her out again, and am not just trying to get my d1ck wet. So how long do I wait?

By the way, at the end of the day when I went to drop her off she thanked me. She told me she had a lot of fun and then shoved her tongue in my mouth, and we groped each other. If it continues this way we're gonna f@ck real soon. However, I don't want her to think I'm only trying to F her. I also don't want to screw things up by F'ing to early. I'm so used t being a playboy that I don't know how to date now lol.

So DJs, what do I do??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wait for sex? LOOOOOOL

Dude......so she didnt even tell you like "Hey lets go slow" or "I like to take things slow"....your just trying to put some form of ban on yourself? Read the link above, heartiste is good sh1t. Dont put any time cap on it...just go with it and always be escalating. Dont force sex to happen but always work towards it.
 
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Thank You! You guys are correct, 100%.

Pulled my head out of my ass. 4 words. Don't be a *****. Plain and simple.

I was behaving as if she was a gem; as if she was a scarce item. Tons more where she came from that I can choose from.

Exactly! What am I trying to do? Wife her up?! Lmao
 
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PackDaddy said:
Hi DJ's, I recently just took this girl out. The chemistry is present, and so far we're into each other. I'm gonna take her out again, and am not just trying to get my d1ck wet. So how long do I wait?

By the way, at the end of the day when I went to drop her off she thanked me. She told me she had a lot of fun and then shoved her tongue in my mouth, and we groped each other. If it continues this way we're gonna f@ck real soon. However, I don't want her to think I'm only trying to F her. I also don't want to screw things up by F'ing to early. I'm so used t being a playboy that I don't know how to date now lol.

So DJs, what do I do??
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What you are saying is completely mental. be a man, have sex with her, never apologise for your make sexuality - own it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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As long as she shows DEFINITE signs of interest (like she has in this case) then it's ok to wait up to 2 months. After that she has another guy and/or other issues.

The Russian girl who I rented a room from in NYC made me wait 3 weeks after we met.
 
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If someone put your dinner down in front of you, how long would you wait to eat it?

Next date, just make sure you pick her up from her place, so you've got a good reason to be back there at the end of the night.
 
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