"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Waht if you have an unusual or unique hard to pronounce name??

Addvrz

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when start getting a good vibe on girls and they become interested for some reason seem to lose some when I try to get her to pronounce my name corrently
how would i make it so that she doesn't lose any attration or respect for me just for my name??? (not that I really care if she does or doesn't like my name):eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just make up a cool nick name for yourself. If you can incorporate your name, great. If not, it's fodder for good c/f conversation.
 

Kourt

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haha my names Courtney, I introduce myself as Court
 

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well its pretty short, steguer pronounced steegur. for some reason they still get it wrong
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GloriouslyInsane

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If you watched the recent pink panther movie you could repeat it back to them totally different each time until they catch up that you're playing with them.Or as mentioned, my name is X but my friends call me <insert cool and weird nickname> if she uses the nick tell her you're not friends so she can't call you that yet (in an joking manner naturally).
 

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What if the girl has a name you can't pronounce? I had that happen to me once. I know for sure that I can't spell it, but it started with an X. So, everyone just called her X. Usually I'd just be like "Hey girl!", so I could avoid it all together. She was really hott too, but had a bf and stuff, so meh.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Just make up a cool nick name for yourself. If you can incorporate your name, great.
Ya, I had a friend named Mohammed who just went by "Mo." Just shorten your name to something short and catchy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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