Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Waht if you have an unusual or unique hard to pronounce name??

Addvrz

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when start getting a good vibe on girls and they become interested for some reason seem to lose some when I try to get her to pronounce my name corrently
how would i make it so that she doesn't lose any attration or respect for me just for my name??? (not that I really care if she does or doesn't like my name):eek:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Just make up a cool nick name for yourself. If you can incorporate your name, great. If not, it's fodder for good c/f conversation.
 

Kourt

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haha my names Courtney, I introduce myself as Court
 

Addvrz

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well its pretty short, steguer pronounced steegur. for some reason they still get it wrong
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GloriouslyInsane

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If you watched the recent pink panther movie you could repeat it back to them totally different each time until they catch up that you're playing with them.Or as mentioned, my name is X but my friends call me <insert cool and weird nickname> if she uses the nick tell her you're not friends so she can't call you that yet (in an joking manner naturally).
 

Ace of Flames

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What if the girl has a name you can't pronounce? I had that happen to me once. I know for sure that I can't spell it, but it started with an X. So, everyone just called her X. Usually I'd just be like "Hey girl!", so I could avoid it all together. She was really hott too, but had a bf and stuff, so meh.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Just make up a cool nick name for yourself. If you can incorporate your name, great.
Ya, I had a friend named Mohammed who just went by "Mo." Just shorten your name to something short and catchy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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