"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joekerr31

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i heard if you wack off while looking at yourself in the mirror that you will go blind.

is this true?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by joekerr31
i heard if you wack off while looking at yourself in the mirror that you will go blind.

is this true?

yep. I had one hell of a time trying to read your post.
 

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Originally posted by joekerr31
i heard if you wack off while looking at yourself in the mirror that you will go blind.

is this true?
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Well, the way that it really works is that ejaculation leads to a loss of energy. And for those that practice tantric, you know the difference between ejaculation and orgasim. Totally different. This is all according to eastern philosophies. You can conduct your own experiements on this.

But when a man and a woman have sex and the man ejaculates from that, he's still loosing energy but he's also gaining energy in other areas. It's the union between man and woman that gives him energy. But if it's a negative experience, then the man's energy and health will also suffer.

Too much sex can also lead to addiction/energy loss. Like doing it 50 times a day. The ideal would be have sex something like 4 times and only ejac like once or twice. It's a push/pull method for your own body.
There is a way to say things without sounding like a new-age preacher. There is no such thing as "gaining energy" from sex; if you're talking about your body releasing pheromones, then just say so.

The sugar-coated ghit really doesn't add anything to the discussion, it's akin to say some god or some angel or some spirit's gonna do something for you. Ridiculous.

-Bill
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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