"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joekerr31

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i heard if you wack off while looking at yourself in the mirror that you will go blind.

is this true?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by joekerr31
i heard if you wack off while looking at yourself in the mirror that you will go blind.

is this true?

yep. I had one hell of a time trying to read your post.
 

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Originally posted by joekerr31
i heard if you wack off while looking at yourself in the mirror that you will go blind.

is this true?
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Well, the way that it really works is that ejaculation leads to a loss of energy. And for those that practice tantric, you know the difference between ejaculation and orgasim. Totally different. This is all according to eastern philosophies. You can conduct your own experiements on this.

But when a man and a woman have sex and the man ejaculates from that, he's still loosing energy but he's also gaining energy in other areas. It's the union between man and woman that gives him energy. But if it's a negative experience, then the man's energy and health will also suffer.

Too much sex can also lead to addiction/energy loss. Like doing it 50 times a day. The ideal would be have sex something like 4 times and only ejac like once or twice. It's a push/pull method for your own body.
There is a way to say things without sounding like a new-age preacher. There is no such thing as "gaining energy" from sex; if you're talking about your body releasing pheromones, then just say so.

The sugar-coated ghit really doesn't add anything to the discussion, it's akin to say some god or some angel or some spirit's gonna do something for you. Ridiculous.

-Bill
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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