"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Vulgar language around women
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
really, you don't want to get her uncomfy by swearing when she isn't ok with it.
Swearing like most things, has its time and lace... but in my opinion, the less of it that you use, the better... i find swearing to be degrading, and when chicks swear alot, i find that to be a turn-off, so its probably the same with them if WE swear alot... So the less the better aight
but
if you use it in the right way Eg: You pick your chick up for a date, when u see her u can say something like "shiiiiiiiit u look fiiine" etc
And the word Fu<k is sometimes appropriate when having wild $ex with your chick
Eg: The two of you are kissing etc and then you say to her " i'm gonna fu<k you so hard" or something along those lines To your suprise, this turns some girls on.... So all in all, try keep AWAY from foul language, but as u know, there ARE exceptions
Laterz...
It is unnaceptable to fukcing swear in the presence of any fukcing lady even a ****e, why? These fukcing slutte sucking *** who bags deserve better than fukcing some **** fukcing using foul fukcing langauge in front of their ****asse faces.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
but if you go around swearing all the time, non stop for no reason its going to look bad and make you look like an angry and negative person, i would imagine the kind of girl that i like would not like guys who swear a lot.
Its just like a few years ago in adventure training camp with the cadet forces, well in a diffrent group to my group, we where driving past them in a mini bus and i saw this girl, now its not common for there to be many girls in the cadet forces, let alone this HB9.5 i had not seen a girl for 5 days and my eyes where just glued to her as we where driving out the camp to go rock climbing.
Suddenly i see this HB9.5 spit, and it was with her throat, like a redneck type guy might do, just like learnado decaprio does in the film titanic.
I was so attracted to her, and most of that intrest went out the window the second i saw her spit, partly because its not a very feminine thing, swearing does not make you a pu$$ey, and this does not prove girls hate guys swearing, but it shows that if you have a bad habbit that the oppsoite sex does not like, there attraction for you will go right out the window.
I think this shows you have to be a man! i would not like a girl who violently berps all the time either, these are not seen as feminin things, so if YOU do things which are not masucline and more feminin then girls will loose intrest.
im not saying burp and spit as these are dirty, you want to be classy, i mean be confident dont be afraid to talk loud and dont be afraid to aproch, if you show chracteristics of being feminin then girls will not like you.
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diablo
Master Don Juan
Remember, everything in moderation.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
This is true with being vulgar. There's a correlation between the amount of expletives used with the inability of someone to express themselves clearly. However, used sparingly it could be considered similar to an interjection. But again, limitation and without vulgarity.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm not advocating going around swearing it up, but I find the connotation and power behind a well-timed and well-placed profanity can really drive the point home.
True that, though chicks just like to hear you talk dirty when you are in the sack, period !
Kaine
Senior Don Juan
I also find people that hang together tend to adopt certain group behaviours
i.e. swearing, drinking, karaoke
Therefore if I swear a lot in her presence, she will begin to do so as well. Hence I keep my swearing to a minimum around her
You may also want to avoid swearing when you are initially dating as well,
it's not very classy and smells a little like a lack of self control.
Your mileage may vary
Kaine
Women find it interesting how a young man doesn't swear, and in fact, they swear more. And when they do, I tell them to avoid that.
There are things that don't have any other ways of naming them except with "foul language". For instance, Sexy_Malibu... you can't avoid saying that she's a ****ing *****. You simply can't.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.