Advice from the old lady:
What would fictional James Bond do? He would never do this. If you have a level of financial success, are buying a 5K watch, and are trying to meet a woman for LTR, you need to behave with class. The banal (vulgarity etc.) does not indicate class. It is too easy to misstep and blow yourself out. Cheeky is fine, suggestive can be fine, even mischievious and endearing, but vulgar, is well, vulgar. It lacks taste, decorum and calibration and casts you as a dolt, a socially uncalibrated brute. That will sink you immediately because it will show you have no class.
Think of it this way....Let's say you are going to a black tie event benefitting the Museum of Natural History. Let's say you are going to dinner at Alain Ducasse first and a nightcap at the Oak Room in the Plaza afterwards. Important people you'd like to impress will be in attendance, and you are wearing an elegant Brioni tuxedo tailored for you that you own....
Your date arrives. She is beautiful but looks like a porn star. Cheap dress, too short, too tight, too much cleavage, sleeveless so too much flesh showing in every direction, smeared makeup that is too heavy, can't walk in her platform heels, smacking her chewing gum, and can only talk about her nails and herself, and she is cussing every time she opens her mouth.
Is she fvckable? Sure. And every person who encounters her thinks so too. She is vulgarity on display, and a heinous reflection on you, she looks like a hooker from Las Vegas.
Showing up to an event like that with such an openly vulgar woman would ruin your reputation and people who move in elegant circles would avoid you and make note never to be seen with you.
You are not Hugh Hefner, who could get away with that at his own house where people knew what they were voluntarily walking into.
Not so in polite society or society generally.
