Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I am the fortunate owner of two automobiles. 97' Cadillac STS and 1980 Volvo 245 Station Wagon :)rockon: ) heh...

I really dig my wagon and its lovely little space for nookie (in duh back).

The Cadillac has class and status (for those who look at it like that).

What car would you pick up a woman in?

Just curious of your opinion.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MisterNigma said:
Hands down the Caddilac.

Agreed.

...and I'm a fan of some volvo's... but 1980?! lol... trippin.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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YEAH i finally got the ***** turbo charged!!

The Volvo 245 wagon used to have the standard B21F with 107 hp and 113fp torque of 8 valve power. But now, she has a B21FT!!

What is that you wonder? Well, let me explain.

The regular, normally aspirated B21F has just enough power as your average Honda, just a few less. Nothing special especially since the B21F is an 8 valve 4-cylinder motor.

The B21FT is the same motor with a different compression and forged piston heads. With the addition of a Garett T3 40/43 trim turbo and a nice size intercooler, she can give you about 165hp.

That is only the stock car form. I had the entire motor and head rebuilt. I had the mechanics add a new cam also. High intake and exhaust lift for that extra air and power.

Guessitment: 190-210 hp and maybe 215-230 fp of torque.

Heh set behind a 5-speed!

She runs now, after 2 1/2 procrastinated years. Heh.

Stills needs some tuning, and I need to get the signals and brake lights to work. Bolt in the seats and go. I did an entire interior swap too; the wiring harness, door panels, seats and dash board were all replaced.

I am going to set it at stock 7-9 psi for now, but once she is tuned to precision, I'll raise the boost to about 12.5 psi. If I want any more boost after that, I need to switch to a newer fuel system. Electronic Fuel Injection in the late 70s and 80s isn't all that modern obviously, so the performance potential for the stock turbo charged motor is limited. I'm going to leave it at that.

yeah so what...it ain't fast..

but...its a lot better than before!!
 
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Lol i'm in the same boat as you I have and love my 87 buick Grand National. Girls don't love it, or really like it, but when they ride in it and see how fast it is they are like wow. I run about 19psi of boost, it runs high 12s (stock settings). You should look into an intercooler, lowers knock and the chance of detonation. I wouldn't run 12 psi on that thing with out an intercooler, you will definatly blow a head gasket. check this site out, i used to be into volvos. actually I might still get one, www.jagsthatrun.com
 

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Women will always like the Cadillac better. Girls are pretty dumb about cars.

I don't see the point in trying to make a station wagon fast. It would hold a helluva stereo system, though...

Just get a motorcycle if you want to go fast. Girls do like those....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Let me throw something out here for you. Do you want a girl thats into you or your car?? Cause if thats the case. The women will only be into materialism and thats not the girl you want.

But, for the opion. I'd go with the Caddy.
 

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Someone Much cooler said:
Lol i'm in the same boat as you I have and love my 87 buick Grand National. Girls don't love it, or really like it, but when they ride in it and see how fast it is they are like wow. I run about 19psi of boost, it runs high 12s (stock settings). You should look into an intercooler, lowers knock and the chance of detonation. I wouldn't run 12 psi on that thing with out an intercooler, you will definatly blow a head gasket. check this site out, i used to be into volvos. actually I might still get one, www.jagsthatrun.com

Lol its got the factory Volvo inter cooler man. Don't worry. I'm not stupid heh!!

You ever been to www.turbobricks.com?
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Let me throw something out here for you. Do you want a girl thats into you or your car?? Cause if thats the case. The women will only be into materialism and thats not the girl you want.

But, for the opion. I'd go with the Caddy.
Hmmm... I didn't really mean it this way.
 

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personally I would go the volvo AS LONG as it is clean and tidy not a beat up sh!tbox... even when I pick up older women they love the thrill of being smashed back into their seat and the sound of a nice spool it gets them a lil giddy at times. yeah sure the caddy is nice and all for what it is but it isn't top of the line of what it is so that makes it just an average driver. whereas the volvo has some spirit and character to it ( and a turbo :D )

I'm just in the process of supercharging my RB30E in my Holden VL and can't wait to go for some sprints up the mountains.
 

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It's weird this thread was made, I been thinking about buying an 2005 Cadillac deville.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There is an unwritten rule that says that for an old car to be considered "cool" or a classic, it has to be a coupe or convertible. For whatever reason, cars with four doors (even high-end ones) rarely obtain cult status. So although a turbocharged 245 is a neat car, it can hardly be called "sexy".
 

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Bokanovsky said:
So although a turbocharged 245 is a neat car, it can hardly be called "sexy".
.... who called that shoebox sexy? because they are ugly as hell and that's what everyone loves about them when they DOSE down the street with a nice flutter. Not all cars need to be a 2dr or convertible to be cool or classic, I would love a nice big 4dr rumbling down the street! or a nice ute. Cars are too variable to please everyone, man if you are happy with one more than the other then drive it if not who cares boost in whatever one you want to take for a spin that night :D
 
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