Volatile Modification to Ignore Tactic

[EdwardKingSolomon]

Ever had that girl that played hard to get? You started to passively and cordially ignore her and then all of a sudden she started hitting you up on the phone, craving your attention again?

Well I found the most volatile tactic that cuts straight to the point, the way to determine if she actually desires you as a boyfriend or if she's just trying to get her ego stroked.

BEHOLD!!!

The next time she texts you, ask the following (John will be your fake name, Kate will be hers):

Kate: Hey bb what ya doing? <3

John: "Who is this?

Kate: Lol, what, it's Katie, is this John. Sorry if I got wrong number.

John: No, this is Jon's number, but who are you?

Kate: Are you being for real?

John: Yes, I'm his gf. Jon is inside gas station paying clerk. So last time, who are you and what do you want?

Kate: --------------------------------- WIN

In this conversation I faked being a jealous girlfriend who intercepted the text in a reasonable and believable scenario. If Kate is truly interested in John, her own jealously will prevail. She most likely will cease responding temporarily whether or not she's romantically interested in John. In my REAL case "Kate" kindly exited the convo by saying "oh sorry, we're just friends from the orchestra."

If Kate were to actually continue the conversation in some hostile manner, then you just discovered that Kate is 11/10 crazy, since you're not even her BF. How, you can't date crazy but you can certainly shag it.

Now most important is NOT how Kate responds to the fake GF, what is most important is how Kate reestablishes contact with you later that day. If Kate doesn't ever contact you again ---- so what, you finally solved the mystery ---- she's not into you. Congrats. You Win.

However, if Kate DOES contact you again, it's going to be completely different. She wants you and she's going to put in the time and effort to date and shag you, motivated by her jealously of the fake GF, she's going to ensure she outshines this fake GF in every way imaginable. Congrats. You Win.

MOST IMPORTANT: DO NOT CONTACT KATE AT ALL AFTER FAKE CONVO. KATE MUST CONTACT YOU FIRST.

 

[bigneil]

This is diabolical.

It's a good joke, but please don't do this. I never recommend lying. I could actually tell my last girlfriend of 9 months that I never lied to her and mean it.

 

[EdwardKingSolomon]

This is diabolical.

It's a good joke, but please don't do this. I never recommend lying. I could actually tell my last girlfriend of 9 months that I never lied to her and mean it.

In my personal opinion it only matters whether or not you lie to her AFTER she's your girlfriend. However, I respect your difference of opinion on the matter. For me there's just too many chicks playing games during the "court" or "chase" phase to not employ your own shenanigans. lol

Also, a girl knows that in order to pry you away from another girlfriend she is gonna have to give you what the other girl is already giving you...she has no choice but to shag you!

 

[bigneil]

In my personal opinion it only matters whether or not you lie to her AFTER she's your girlfriend. However, I respect your difference of opinion on the matter. For me there's just too many chicks playing games during the "court" or "chase" phase to not employ your own shenanigans. lol

You might do it as a practical joke, but tell her after.

I moved to the apartment next door in April, and it's a perfect mirror image of my last apartment. I put every single object in the corresponding (reflected) position. Then I brought my then girlfriend (who had visited about 5 times) over, and as she motioned to the right door we went in the left door. Everything was mirrored. She said "Is something different?" and I said "No, are you ok? Have you been drinking?" But then I told her I moved.

 

[cola]

Weird, creepy & way too much effort.
It's 4 billion girls on earth. If she's hard to get find someone who isn't instead of pretending to be a woman to make her jealous.

This is something a 12 year old pubescent boy would do, not a twenty something man with a career, goals and business affairs to tend to.

 

[EdwardKingSolomon]

Weird, creepy & way too much effort.
It's 4 billion girls on earth. If she's hard to get find someone who isn't instead of pretending to be a woman to make her jealous.

This is something a 12 year old pubescent boy would do, not a twenty something man with a career, goals and business affairs to tend to.

compare these Google searches:

• "how to make HER jealous": 19,900,000 results
• "how to make HIM jealous": 43,600,000 results

Women do this all the time, 2 to 2.5 more often then men. It's certainly not a concept that is understood and researched by 12 year olds.

And "way too much effort" ??? It's a three line text LOL

 

[RangerMIke]

Sorry. Honestly I think this is weak behavior. If you need to resort to dishonesty, then you need to work on yourself. No need to resort to silly antics... too many chicks in the world that will be happy with you the way you are without game playing.

Having said that... it is true that women are more attracted to a man if they think he has options... rather than making up imaginary chicks, you should just go date other women, then don't try to hid the fact you date other women.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Ever had that girl that played hard to get? You started to passively and cordially ignore her and then all of a sudden she started hitting you up on the phone, craving your attention again?

Well I found the most volatile tactic that cuts straight to the point, the way to determine if she actually desires you as a boyfriend or if she's just trying to get her ego stroked.

BEHOLD!!!

The next time she texts you, ask the following (John will be your fake name, Kate will be hers):

Kate: Hey bb what ya doing? <3

John: "Who is this?

Kate: Lol, what, it's Katie, is this John. Sorry if I got wrong number.

John: No, this is Jon's number, but who are you?

Kate: Are you being for real?

John: Yes, I'm his gf. Jon is inside gas station paying clerk. So last time, who are you and what do you want?

Kate: --------------------------------- WIN

In this conversation I faked being a jealous girlfriend who intercepted the text in a reasonable and believable scenario. If Kate is truly interested in John, her own jealously will prevail. She most likely will cease responding temporarily whether or not she's romantically interested in John. In my REAL case "Kate" kindly exited the convo by saying "oh sorry, we're just friends from the orchestra."

If Kate were to actually continue the conversation in some hostile manner, then you just discovered that Kate is 11/10 crazy, since you're not even her BF. How, you can't date crazy but you can certainly shag it.

Now most important is NOT how Kate responds to the fake GF, what is most important is how Kate reestablishes contact with you later that day. If Kate doesn't ever contact you again ---- so what, you finally solved the mystery ---- she's not into you. Congrats. You Win.

However, if Kate DOES contact you again, it's going to be completely different. She wants you and she's going to put in the time and effort to date and shag you, motivated by her jealously of the fake GF, she's going to ensure she outshines this fake GF in every way imaginable. Congrats. You Win.

MOST IMPORTANT: DO NOT CONTACT KATE AT ALL AFTER FAKE CONVO. KATE MUST CONTACT YOU FIRST.

Funny, but it seems a bit infantile and sophomoric. If Kate calls and you want to see her, great. Invite her over and tell her to bring a bottle of wine. Then see if stuff happens i.e., sex. Then, determine if you want to keep seeing her.

You don't need a "fake" gf, LOL.

 

[EdwardKingSolomon]

Funny, but it seems a bit infantile and sophomoric. If Kate calls and you want to see her, great. Invite her over and tell her to bring a bottle of wine. Then see if stuff happens i.e., sex. Then, determine if you want to keep seeing her.

You don't need a "fake" gf, LOL.

I did twice. She flaked on both events/invitations, yet I knew she actually liked me. So I went nuclear. It worked. Since I only knew and saw her was from the college orchestra I had no way other to instill jealousy. The music girls tend to be genuinely more shy as it as too. All depends on the girl's particular mindset.

It's a niche tactic that when appropriate injures no one and resolves any mysteries.

Thought I'd share it lol

 

[sph21]

The point of being a Don Juan is to be true to yourself. Being authentic is sexy because many men are too afraid to do it. Lying just to get her interested in you is a weak behavior because you put her on a pedestal. This is an AFC behavior. If you do this, then that means her opinions about you are more important than your opinions about yourself.

Do you know why SoSuave members aren't discussing about speed seduction or even NLP sh!t? Because by using them, you put too much pressure on yourself and her. Speed seduction & NLP is not good for LTR. Don Juan is a natural man. He embraces his own core. Integrity is very important to a DJ. This is why DJ never be afraid to lose a woman by being honest. If a woman don't like a DJ for who he is inside, then she doesn't deserve him. If she isn't interested in him then she's gone. If she's not respecting him then she's gone. It's that simple. Don't make it harder than it's supposed to be.

 

[zekko]

compare these Google searches:

• "how to make HER jealous": 19,900,000 results
• "how to make HIM jealous": 43,600,000 results

Guys who have a hard time realizing how a man's value can compete with a woman's should take a look at this.

And this just shows that this type of behavior is acting like a woman. I agree with cola, if she's playing hard to get, go find someone who isn't.

 

[The Duke]

compare these Google searches:

• "how to make HER jealous": 19,900,000 results
• "how to make HIM jealous": 43,600,000 results

Women do this all the time, 2 to 2.5 more often then men. It's certainly not a concept that is understood and researched by 12 year olds.

And "way too much effort" ??? It's a three line text LOL

I'm not trying to bust your theory here, women are naturally a little shady. I just ran that same search and it said 2 million results for making him jealous, and 33 million for making her jealous.