"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Voice Issues

victor22

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2005
Messages
44
Reaction score
0
Age
43
Hi Guys ,

How do you people deal with heavy voices(musics) in clubs and bars, coz i have a low voice.

Send me some advices.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Boner da Stoner

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2005
Messages
659
Reaction score
0
Location
Iqaluit Nunavut
Re: Re: Voice Issues

Originally posted by johnmich
Advices lol
wow john you sure are a helpful retard... kind of like the guy who was 22 in grade 9 laughing at the teachers shoes when they squeaked on the floor.

Victor22(get a real nickname, that is almost key, I wouldn't use my email address as my nickname for any reason)

I do know a MAN named victor tootoo though ;)

What you should do is practice, some people scream at the top of their lungs to get over the volume... but whats that? fighting decibals with decibals, there are systems that can squeeze out more db. than a mother ****ing Jet engine...

What you need to do is learn to adapt your voice to the situation, and learn when to shut your trap... your not going to be holding any conversation in a club that loud... EVER! What you will be doing is dancing, and leading with movements, eyes, looks, pauses, and pizzazz.

If you want to get a few words across though, is to squeeze your vocal chords, you know, when you want to sound like you just ate a helium balloon.
 

Cheatz

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
232
Reaction score
0
Location
Australia, Melbourne
Re: Re: Re: Voice Issues

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
If you want to get a few words across though, is to squeeze your vocal chords, you know, when you want to sound like you just ate a helium balloon.
Well i can't speak for all the other deep voiced guys but if you try doing that you'd only get a wheezy breath sound, even if you're trying scream.

But yes i too would like to know, since how our low voices range is harder to hear when your in a room that has the bass booming at the same frequency.
 
Top