"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Vitamin - K

Stuntmann

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What does it do?


I noticed that two hours on the sun, and I go to sleep, I sleep longer, and it's harder to wake up. Could that be related?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vitamin K? you're joking right? ever been in the K-hole?? it IS kind of like two hours on the sun come to think of it.
 

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Phylloquinone.. Vitamin we get from exposure to sun, either K or D. Does it have effect on sleep cycles?
 

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Vitamin D can be made using sunlight, not Vitamin K. We get Vitamin K from gut bacteria and various foods.

Sunlight affects circadian rhythms, yes.
 

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Thus, me getting a lot of sun is causing me to sleep longer and making it harder for me to wake up to alarm?

Can I get rid of that by wearing sun block? (only my arms, legs, and face are exposed)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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