"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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VITAL TIPS TO GET YOUR GIRL.

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I think my post drove her off for good :) yay
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You realize the last time donjuanita posted WAS FOUR YEARS AGO? Why are YOU PEOPLE STILL REPLYING?!
 

Poonani Maker

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fragmentor said:
What the Fvck? Jealousy is a fvcking GREAT tool. they won't appreciate it but it'll evelate their interest in you internsely.



Oh my God are you a woman?? no seriously?? Yeah this is totally true but I'm a fvcking man and I like what I like. As DJs we dont have to succumb to lame a$$ peer pressure to be a 'nice guy' and try to like someone for their personality, if i do like someone for their personality then so be it (they're prolly female DJs). DJs are NOT nice guys, nor are we jerks. No way in hell am I gonna try to like someone for their personality because i 'should' because of the way the female psyche works. everyone, know and accept that you're a man. stop trying to AFC this group please. bad girl.
They're in HS dude. This is the way it appears from their sheltered world. They'll learn. They are around GIRLS not women, who's main focuses are to study and goto college, not little boys. VERY hard to game these daddy's girls and that's what these HSers are up against. The pickins are few but there are the sluts in HS to gain experience off of. I went to a highly conservative Christian HS, so I had it a little worse than most in trying to open the flowers of these prudish nuns.
 

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Guys, do you like feminists? No? Then girls probably don't like "manists"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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donjuanita said:
General "Man specimen" criteria for ANY girl:
-Can carry a good conversation
-Funny/Witty
-General hygiene (you guys really don't notice this-its vital!)
-INITIATE!!!

Girls don't want to be the ones asking you peoples out. Most girls are old-fashioned, traditional biznatches who will always wait around for the guys to do the work. So DO IT!!! If you like a girl, tell her. If she doesn't like you back, oh well. Deal with it, life goes on bastard.

-Be careful of how you act around different people. If you fool around with lots of sketchy girls, the good one you really like might take it that you see her the same as them and won't appreciate it.

Try, TRY, TRRRYYYY to look at the girl's personality rather than her ass. For girls, it's not always about the hot guy. Girls will choose an okay-looking guy with an awesome personality over a hot guy with no substance. Personality always supplements in what the person lacks in looks.

Good luck,
the donjuanitas.
The most ignorant and stupid post in So Suave history, and you can quote me on that. :trouble:
 

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I want to thank whoever brought this post back from the grave. This is good laughing material.
 

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donjuanita said:
General "Man specimen" criteria for ANY girl:
-Can carry a good conversation
-Funny/Witty
-General hygiene (you guys really don't notice this-its vital!)
-INITIATE!!!

Girls don't want to be the ones asking you peoples out. Most girls are old-fashioned, traditional biznatches who will always wait around for the guys to do the work. So DO IT!!! If you like a girl, tell her. If she doesn't like you back, oh well. Deal with it, life goes on bastard.

-Be careful of how you act around different people. If you fool around with lots of sketchy girls, the good one you really like might take it that you see her the same as them and won't appreciate it.

Try, TRY, TRRRYYYY to look at the girl's personality rather than her ass. For girls, it's not always about the hot guy. Girls will choose an okay-looking guy with an awesome personality over a hot guy with no substance. Personality always supplements in what the person lacks in looks.

Good luck,
the donjuanitas.
You are a typical Flaky female. Your opinion here is of little matter to us. In a club where the female to male ratio is 7-8 to 1, Female to Male, your ridiculous attitude would change in about 3 seconds, thanks.
 
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