"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Night2412

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Hey people.

Long time lurker, first time poster.

Just a little question, who here uses visualization to help better there game? I often here people say they imagine themselves as successful people and bang they become successful (Although not as quickly as I made it sound there).

This has had be thinking that the same thing could be used to assist in picking up girls. Which brings back to the question above of does anyone use this to benefit the game?

Thanks for any advice

Night
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All top athletes utilise visualisation to put themselves in performance mindsets before they compete.
There is no reason why it cannot work for you also in any aspect of your life.

In fact one PUA, Hypnotica, even has one called "The attractivator" which is a 20 minute audio hypnosis to get you to associate a finger gesture that you make to having successful experiences with women.
Personally, I think it's pretty good and get's me in a good place when I use it.

However, thinking about girls on it's own will not get you girls.
The best (and hardest) strategy is to go out and get rejected again and again and again until you are over it.
 

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It is a powerful thing. But is not easily achieved and must be controlled.

Apparently, before he was ultimately successful, JimCarey visualised himself being given a cheque for 10million once upon a time and a few years later he was handed a cheque for 10million for his role in Dumb and Dumber.

I use it a lot in sport and it does work. Learning o act with one's whole is closely allied to achievement though. I agree with Johnny that attracting women is not really that straight forward. May be better to visualise other successes and reap the other associated, but less tangible success that accompany personal achievement.
 

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Yes I've used it and it worked. You have to put energy into it. If you do some more research online you will find some good techniques.
 

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Night2412 said:
Which brings back to the question above of does anyone use this to benefit the game?

Sure have...

I've visualized chicks naked before approaching them, or, visualized my cøck sliding between the boobs I've been staring at. I've visualized the color of her underwear, the look on her face when she's cümming, even "visualized" the sound of her voice when she moans.

It gets you in the right mode, and you act accordingly. I think Señor Fingers' "Weapons of Mass Seduction" touches on this, too, with regards to approaching.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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