“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Night2412

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Hey people.

Long time lurker, first time poster.

Just a little question, who here uses visualization to help better there game? I often here people say they imagine themselves as successful people and bang they become successful (Although not as quickly as I made it sound there).

This has had be thinking that the same thing could be used to assist in picking up girls. Which brings back to the question above of does anyone use this to benefit the game?

Thanks for any advice

Night
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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All top athletes utilise visualisation to put themselves in performance mindsets before they compete.
There is no reason why it cannot work for you also in any aspect of your life.

In fact one PUA, Hypnotica, even has one called "The attractivator" which is a 20 minute audio hypnosis to get you to associate a finger gesture that you make to having successful experiences with women.
Personally, I think it's pretty good and get's me in a good place when I use it.

However, thinking about girls on it's own will not get you girls.
The best (and hardest) strategy is to go out and get rejected again and again and again until you are over it.
 

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It is a powerful thing. But is not easily achieved and must be controlled.

Apparently, before he was ultimately successful, JimCarey visualised himself being given a cheque for 10million once upon a time and a few years later he was handed a cheque for 10million for his role in Dumb and Dumber.

I use it a lot in sport and it does work. Learning o act with one's whole is closely allied to achievement though. I agree with Johnny that attracting women is not really that straight forward. May be better to visualise other successes and reap the other associated, but less tangible success that accompany personal achievement.
 

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Yes I've used it and it worked. You have to put energy into it. If you do some more research online you will find some good techniques.
 

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Night2412 said:
Which brings back to the question above of does anyone use this to benefit the game?

Sure have...

I've visualized chicks naked before approaching them, or, visualized my cøck sliding between the boobs I've been staring at. I've visualized the color of her underwear, the look on her face when she's cümming, even "visualized" the sound of her voice when she moans.

It gets you in the right mode, and you act accordingly. I think Señor Fingers' "Weapons of Mass Seduction" touches on this, too, with regards to approaching.
 
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