"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Visit abroad: boyfriend?

TheBroccoli

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Hey guys,

I live in Europe and this American girl I met during my travels is moving in august to live in the Middle East for a year. We've had contact for half a year now on skype and facebook. The plan was that she will come over in fall somewhere. Now I see on her instagram that she's dating some guy: going on a romantic weekend trip and festivals with him. One picture with her in his arms. Do I assume that she is now in a relationship with this dude? He's probably not moving with her, so they'll have to say goodbye soon enough. I'm going to Skype with her on wednesday. Do I pretend I don't know or should I ask about it? Or would asking her **** things up? Thing is I don't want to mow someone else's lawn or waste time and energy on a girl that's taken (even if it's just for a week). Therefore I need to know if she's single. I'm dating other women at the moment, but I really want to see this girl again. Any advice and tips on handling the skype conversation next week?

Also: next weekend I'm going to visit a girl in Germany. Literally the hottest girl I ever met, but not really relationship material. Plan is to post some photos of this visit on insta, hope the American girl (more like the cute girl next door, not the typical smokeshow) will like it :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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