mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This was a good video:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
True. Sh1t ton of "double lifers" in the churches, even the preachers will admit. A self proclaimed "virtuous" woman is likely a very powerful succubus... https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation 17&version=GNVI would be wary of any woman who claims to be "virtuous."
But I'm even more wary of a woman whom a man claims (read: projects) is virtuous.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Everyone in the church is living a double life. Some openly tell you of their sins and others keep it all quiet until they get caught or maybe never it comes to light to the people.True. Sh1t ton of "double lifers" in the churches, even the preachers will admit. A self proclaimed "virtuous" woman is likely a very powerful succubus... https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation 17&version=GNV
I think the word disposable works better here.Men have become near-redundant for women nowadays).
Ideally true. But society is effed up all over the world.When a woman's attraction is high enough, then she will become virtuous (for you). In fact, she'll become anything you want her to be if her attraction is high enough. Women are like water and take the shape of their container. Become her container (admittedly, it ain't easy in this modern world. Men have become near-redundant for women nowadays).
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.