mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This was a good video:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
True. Sh1t ton of "double lifers" in the churches, even the preachers will admit. A self proclaimed "virtuous" woman is likely a very powerful succubus... https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation 17&version=GNVI would be wary of any woman who claims to be "virtuous."
But I'm even more wary of a woman whom a man claims (read: projects) is virtuous.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Everyone in the church is living a double life. Some openly tell you of their sins and others keep it all quiet until they get caught or maybe never it comes to light to the people.True. Sh1t ton of "double lifers" in the churches, even the preachers will admit. A self proclaimed "virtuous" woman is likely a very powerful succubus... https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation 17&version=GNV
I think the word disposable works better here.Men have become near-redundant for women nowadays).
Ideally true. But society is effed up all over the world.When a woman's attraction is high enough, then she will become virtuous (for you). In fact, she'll become anything you want her to be if her attraction is high enough. Women are like water and take the shape of their container. Become her container (admittedly, it ain't easy in this modern world. Men have become near-redundant for women nowadays).
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.