"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Virginity.

SamTheHobit

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This is wierd question but here it goes anyway.Ok im still a virgin.anyway here's the question, Is it bad that I refuse to lose my virginity to a non virgin? I mean i cant imagine having intercourse with a girl that another guy has fvck*d.. This may be inscurity or something. I just find it sickening.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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VastanVer2.0

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Good luck finding a girl that's a virgin. Most girls lose it early, like between 14-17. If your over 18 you probably won't lose it to another virgin, unless you **** a UB or a fatty. I lost it to a girl that had been with 2 guys before me (1 boyfriend, and 1 hookup) and I don't regret it. I was 17, and she was 16 and on the rebound. I've never slept with a virgin since then, though id love to, just for the experience.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
This is wierd question but here it goes anyway.Ok im still a virgin.anyway here's the question, Is it bad that I refuse to lose my virginity to a non virgin? I mean i cant imagine having intercourse with a girl that another guy has fvck*d.. This may be inscurity or something. I just find it sickening.

It's not very unusual to feel that way, but yes, it is a hang-up based in insecurity and something that should hopefully disappear over the course of your life as you gain more experience.

Keep in mind that any young girl will struggle with insecurities just like you. She won't want you to see her naked; she'll be afraid to do much more than just lay there during sex; and she'll probably start crying afterward for no apparent reason. That's the reality of sex with a virgin and most young girls who are inexperienced with sex. It's also why alcohol is such a common social lubricant.
 

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Nothing wrong with that,actually the insecure calling is like the fox with the grape.

Nothing wrong in the desire of getting something special while you're doing something special that happen once in a life back.
However as the guys told you,it's very hard and getting even harder unless you're the cool guy in high school even if you are the cool guy in college you wont be as much as lucky.

I thank God everyday for allowing me to lose mine with a virgin,the first time was not that great cause she was nervous and I was incompetant but my animal instinct is satisfied.
 
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