"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Virginity.

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This is wierd question but here it goes anyway.Ok im still a virgin.anyway here's the question, Is it bad that I refuse to lose my virginity to a non virgin? I mean i cant imagine having intercourse with a girl that another guy has fvck*d.. This may be inscurity or something. I just find it sickening.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good luck finding a girl that's a virgin. Most girls lose it early, like between 14-17. If your over 18 you probably won't lose it to another virgin, unless you **** a UB or a fatty. I lost it to a girl that had been with 2 guys before me (1 boyfriend, and 1 hookup) and I don't regret it. I was 17, and she was 16 and on the rebound. I've never slept with a virgin since then, though id love to, just for the experience.
 
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SamTheHobit said:
This is wierd question but here it goes anyway.Ok im still a virgin.anyway here's the question, Is it bad that I refuse to lose my virginity to a non virgin? I mean i cant imagine having intercourse with a girl that another guy has fvck*d.. This may be inscurity or something. I just find it sickening.
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It's not very unusual to feel that way, but yes, it is a hang-up based in insecurity and something that should hopefully disappear over the course of your life as you gain more experience.

Keep in mind that any young girl will struggle with insecurities just like you. She won't want you to see her naked; she'll be afraid to do much more than just lay there during sex; and she'll probably start crying afterward for no apparent reason. That's the reality of sex with a virgin and most young girls who are inexperienced with sex. It's also why alcohol is such a common social lubricant.
 
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Nothing wrong with that,actually the insecure calling is like the fox with the grape.

Nothing wrong in the desire of getting something special while you're doing something special that happen once in a life back.
However as the guys told you,it's very hard and getting even harder unless you're the cool guy in high school even if you are the cool guy in college you wont be as much as lucky.

I thank God everyday for allowing me to lose mine with a virgin,the first time was not that great cause she was nervous and I was incompetant but my animal instinct is satisfied.
 
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