"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Originally posted by MackJr
Absolutely. I wouldn't want to waste my time on a prude with issues. If we're having sex fairly quickly, I know not to worry about that. This "not being sexual equals respect" is a sort of juvenile attitude, what turns men into AFCs. It's important to shake free of it at somepoint, because it's really just an attitude parents give their children so they don't end up pregnant or getting someone else pregnant too early.
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Wait a second. Are you saying that it's not respectful to wait to have sex? I have to dissagree. If she doesn't want to have sex, then you should respect that. It's her choise whether you think it's right or wrong. If you want to have sex and she doesn't, that's one thing. But, what if I'm waiting for whatever reason? Does the fact that I'm a virgin make me less of a man? NO! It's absurd to say, because you don't have sex there is something wrong with you. That could be true in some cases, but it's rediculous to assume that someone who is waiting(for whatever reason) is weak. I'd argue that it gives you strength.

My point is that it's ok to have sex, but it's also ok not to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm saying it's not disrespectful to have or want sex.


Look. No means no. We're not arguing about that point, hopefully.


The real issue is that if you interact with someone sexually or in a leadership position, or in sales, you will have to change their feelings a little bit. It's a necessary skill in life. If the girl initially is uncomfortable (not an outright no), then the skill is in bringing her to a place of comfort. it's not an intellectual thing, but an emotional one.
 
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Oh! :)

Ok, thanks for clearing that up. I agree with you there.
 
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