spinaroonie
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The older you are as a virgin, the creepier you get.
Remember that.
Remember that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Some could argue that being on this website is the creepiest you can get.spinaroonie said:The older you are as a virgin, the creepier you get.
Remember that.
I am open minded and I am focusing on better myself. What the hell do you think I am planning a change of career and what exactly am I doing down the gym? I display a poor attitude when I am scrutinised and told I am pretty much worthless.synergy1 said:Sour grapes bro. Rather than focusing on improving, you hate on what you can not have. This is not a sign of mental fortitude, but rather ignorance and frustration. If this is how you communicate with other people, its no wonder you are a virgin still and wouldn't be a shock if you remained so indefinitely. Sorry, my post was intended for an unfortunate, yet open minded individual who was willing to work towards a better self. Rather, you are living in a delusional worldview which everyone and everything is crap.
Lose the attitude. You aren't better than anyone else. You don't get laid because you have a ****ty attitude. plain and simple.
Lastly, I don't see how you can compare a great gf to being a paratrooper. The two are mutually exclusive. That said, i would rather have a great gf rather than get shot at in Afghanistan.
synergy1 said:Your view is too binary. Either you are doing your profession OR are with women. You are either mentally "robust"* OR with women. You are either go karting OR with women. Do you realize how dumb that sounds? If you aren't looking for a girlfriend, than get laid. If you aren't looking to get laid, than stop posting and GTFO.
I promise you this: I am much smarter and in better shape than you are. Yet, I get girls. As for a girlfriend, I can agree that now isn't the best time for me. I still date from time to time, talk to women, and god forbid...have fun. To think you are somehow different/ better than people who get women is just ludicrous. STDs?? nope I am clean.
* Robust is a term for engineers. Don't use it thinking it'll make you look smart.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
England.Noodles said:You've mentioned your country a few times. What country are you from?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Cheese eating, surrender monkey.BBbardot said:LOL at the virgin that "hates women and don't want to have to do anything with them", using the army to make himself feel and look manly.
this guy is more and more ridiculous.
also he clearly stated " **** women" a few times and " i don't want them" " why would i want them" several time too, now if this guy is not into guys either, he must be into dating goats
( wink to synergy)
So finally he lays down his arms and is willing to offer me advice. Guess what I am willing to learn from you, now you have dropped the vendetta against me.synergy1 said:i know i shouldn't be such a jerk. I'll stop my inflammatory nature and try to leave with some advice which might help the OP along.
Stop taking stuff so seriously. Stop looking at the world in black and white. Not everything is crap. Women aren't crap. You can succeed in life and succeed with women.
Why should I get laid?
Because its more fun than go karting?
This should lighten the mood :http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOwNgn9eq6U
Now we're talking. So you're looking at P-Coy? Oh...good boy. You couldn't want to join a bigger gang of benders and fags (they will say the same about my side of the fence - I'm a rubber dagger).FortunateSon said:England.