spinaroonie
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The older you are as a virgin, the creepier you get.
Remember that.
Remember that.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Some could argue that being on this website is the creepiest you can get.spinaroonie said:The older you are as a virgin, the creepier you get.
Remember that.
I am open minded and I am focusing on better myself. What the hell do you think I am planning a change of career and what exactly am I doing down the gym? I display a poor attitude when I am scrutinised and told I am pretty much worthless.synergy1 said:Sour grapes bro. Rather than focusing on improving, you hate on what you can not have. This is not a sign of mental fortitude, but rather ignorance and frustration. If this is how you communicate with other people, its no wonder you are a virgin still and wouldn't be a shock if you remained so indefinitely. Sorry, my post was intended for an unfortunate, yet open minded individual who was willing to work towards a better self. Rather, you are living in a delusional worldview which everyone and everything is crap.
Lose the attitude. You aren't better than anyone else. You don't get laid because you have a ****ty attitude. plain and simple.
Lastly, I don't see how you can compare a great gf to being a paratrooper. The two are mutually exclusive. That said, i would rather have a great gf rather than get shot at in Afghanistan.
synergy1 said:Your view is too binary. Either you are doing your profession OR are with women. You are either mentally "robust"* OR with women. You are either go karting OR with women. Do you realize how dumb that sounds? If you aren't looking for a girlfriend, than get laid. If you aren't looking to get laid, than stop posting and GTFO.
I promise you this: I am much smarter and in better shape than you are. Yet, I get girls. As for a girlfriend, I can agree that now isn't the best time for me. I still date from time to time, talk to women, and god forbid...have fun. To think you are somehow different/ better than people who get women is just ludicrous. STDs?? nope I am clean.
* Robust is a term for engineers. Don't use it thinking it'll make you look smart.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
England.Noodles said:You've mentioned your country a few times. What country are you from?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Cheese eating, surrender monkey.BBbardot said:LOL at the virgin that "hates women and don't want to have to do anything with them", using the army to make himself feel and look manly.
this guy is more and more ridiculous.
also he clearly stated " **** women" a few times and " i don't want them" " why would i want them" several time too, now if this guy is not into guys either, he must be into dating goats
( wink to synergy)
So finally he lays down his arms and is willing to offer me advice. Guess what I am willing to learn from you, now you have dropped the vendetta against me.synergy1 said:i know i shouldn't be such a jerk. I'll stop my inflammatory nature and try to leave with some advice which might help the OP along.
Stop taking stuff so seriously. Stop looking at the world in black and white. Not everything is crap. Women aren't crap. You can succeed in life and succeed with women.
Why should I get laid?
Because its more fun than go karting?
This should lighten the mood :http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOwNgn9eq6U
Now we're talking. So you're looking at P-Coy? Oh...good boy. You couldn't want to join a bigger gang of benders and fags (they will say the same about my side of the fence - I'm a rubber dagger).FortunateSon said:England.