virgin at 20

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Mad Manic

Banned

Dec 16, 2007

wutangfinancial said:
^yeah, you're probably still in high school.

Girls past the age of 17 don't care about how much you can bench. I live in Montreal. The model hot girls in their early 20's date uber-skinny metro guys with tons of cash.

That's because they're in the same social groups and wealth is obviously a good factor. You said the tall, good looking ones are in the clubs with the fit girls. Well if they were super scrawny I doubt it. If normal build then still yes as they're tall and good looking. Add muscle and cut physique to tall and good looking and he may actually be sexing these fitties rather than just being in their presence and buying drinks.

MM

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.