virgin at 20

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Mad Manic

Banned

Dec 16, 2007

wutangfinancial said:
^yeah, you're probably still in high school.

Girls past the age of 17 don't care about how much you can bench. I live in Montreal. The model hot girls in their early 20's date uber-skinny metro guys with tons of cash.

That's because they're in the same social groups and wealth is obviously a good factor. You said the tall, good looking ones are in the clubs with the fit girls. Well if they were super scrawny I doubt it. If normal build then still yes as they're tall and good looking. Add muscle and cut physique to tall and good looking and he may actually be sexing these fitties rather than just being in their presence and buying drinks.

MM

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.