"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Violent friends destroying my game.

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dragonsexpress

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hey redbyte, if you're real good, you can talk them down out of anything by just using the assertiveness in your voice.. that takes lots of practice though. you can get so good with being assertive just by how you speak, your friends may completely change the way the act around you forever..(that's what happened to me, cuz I had a violent friend who now is a respectable friend just by me being real firm and serious when I'd tell him to show me respect. and he listened!)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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your own friends try to AMOG you around other girls? They are immature and insecure, drop them.
 
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LOL, you could actually use AMOG tactics

" Why do only do this when girls are around ? *say it loud & clear*
You don't do this with no girls around... Are you trying to impress them ? "

This will stump them, & 90% of the time they will stop it, & it will be even better cuz they won't be expecting it from you.

On the other hand, retaliate. I personally don't think 'do it the DJ way' is right. It's not in an animals nature to sit there & cope a beating... hit them back.
 
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^^ I like Bloke's advice. Sounds like just the thing that would work for these guys.

Also thanks for the advise from others. Sounds good. I'll fight back. It's just I've seen guys that instantly punch someone when they get a nudge and they look like a tool. I'd prefer to look calm and not bothered.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've never had friends like that man. Sounds like they're treating you like
sh!t. Get some new friends.

Think about this:

Will those guys bail you out of jail? Or will they be in jail with you saying "damn dude, we messed up."

Think about that.
 
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