"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Violent friends destroying my game.

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dragonsexpress

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hey redbyte, if you're real good, you can talk them down out of anything by just using the assertiveness in your voice.. that takes lots of practice though. you can get so good with being assertive just by how you speak, your friends may completely change the way the act around you forever..(that's what happened to me, cuz I had a violent friend who now is a respectable friend just by me being real firm and serious when I'd tell him to show me respect. and he listened!)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Marlimus

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your own friends try to AMOG you around other girls? They are immature and insecure, drop them.
 
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LOL, you could actually use AMOG tactics

" Why do only do this when girls are around ? *say it loud & clear*
You don't do this with no girls around... Are you trying to impress them ? "

This will stump them, & 90% of the time they will stop it, & it will be even better cuz they won't be expecting it from you.

On the other hand, retaliate. I personally don't think 'do it the DJ way' is right. It's not in an animals nature to sit there & cope a beating... hit them back.
 
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^^ I like Bloke's advice. Sounds like just the thing that would work for these guys.

Also thanks for the advise from others. Sounds good. I'll fight back. It's just I've seen guys that instantly punch someone when they get a nudge and they look like a tool. I'd prefer to look calm and not bothered.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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T Money

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I've never had friends like that man. Sounds like they're treating you like
sh!t. Get some new friends.

Think about this:

Will those guys bail you out of jail? Or will they be in jail with you saying "damn dude, we messed up."

Think about that.
 
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