"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Violent friends destroying my game.

dragonsexpress

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hey redbyte, if you're real good, you can talk them down out of anything by just using the assertiveness in your voice.. that takes lots of practice though. you can get so good with being assertive just by how you speak, your friends may completely change the way the act around you forever..(that's what happened to me, cuz I had a violent friend who now is a respectable friend just by me being real firm and serious when I'd tell him to show me respect. and he listened!)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Marlimus

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your own friends try to AMOG you around other girls? They are immature and insecure, drop them.
 

Bloke

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LOL, you could actually use AMOG tactics

" Why do only do this when girls are around ? *say it loud & clear*
You don't do this with no girls around... Are you trying to impress them ? "

This will stump them, & 90% of the time they will stop it, & it will be even better cuz they won't be expecting it from you.

On the other hand, retaliate. I personally don't think 'do it the DJ way' is right. It's not in an animals nature to sit there & cope a beating... hit them back.
 

redbyte

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^^ I like Bloke's advice. Sounds like just the thing that would work for these guys.

Also thanks for the advise from others. Sounds good. I'll fight back. It's just I've seen guys that instantly punch someone when they get a nudge and they look like a tool. I'd prefer to look calm and not bothered.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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T Money

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I've never had friends like that man. Sounds like they're treating you like
sh!t. Get some new friends.

Think about this:

Will those guys bail you out of jail? Or will they be in jail with you saying "damn dude, we messed up."

Think about that.
 
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