video: The Disappearing Middle: Why Average Men Are Becoming Invisible

[BaronOfHair]

The obvious thing to do is both. Calling out bullsh1t is our duty as men just as optimizing any given situation is

Yeah, it's very simple: No one worth their salt desires banality and triteness, whether it's out of the cuisine we consume, music we listen to, or those whom we mate with

Ergo, it's not advisable to be "average"

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Yeah, it's very simple: No one worth their salt desires banality and triteness, whether it's out of the cuisine we consume, music we listen to, or those whom we mate with

Ergo, it's not advisable to be "average"

The real issue is the infatuation with being "better than average" rather than raising the level of the group as a whole

A little competition is good but only under the umbrella of cooperation

 

[BadBoy89]

Most men are average because the pot at the end of the rainbow is very un-average

Men aren’t average because of laziness, they are not average because the feel sorry for themselves, they are average because they see the prize, and the women aren’t worth it. Do all this work to get a 30 something divorced woman with a 5 year old boy who won’t put out until 10 dates in or a ring on her finger, who will give the man attitude on every date, who will want the option to destroy the man when they married if she is not happy.. Most men are like “no thanks”

Now, as ridiculous as it sounds, if a man was promised a hot 22 year old, in shape, sexy women who was virgin in exchange for being way above average, do you know how hard he work for it? Day and night.

The “averageness” of a man depends on the girls youth, and how hot she is.

 

[SW15]

Do all this work to get a 30 something divorced woman with a 5 year old boy who won’t put out until 10 dates in or a ring on her finger, who will give the man attitude on every date

What guy would wait 10 dates for sex for a single mom in her 30s?

I am accustomed to getting sex in far fewer than 10 dates.

I know some men who have waited an extended amount of time to get sex but these women were childless and under 30.

 

[Smok1nAce]

Most men are average because the pot at the end of the rainbow is very un-average

Men aren’t average because of laziness, they are not average because the feel sorry for themselves, they are average because they see the prize, and the women aren’t worth it. Do all this work to get a 30 something divorced woman with a 5 year old boy who won’t put out until 10 dates in or a ring on her finger, who will give the man attitude on every date, who will want the option to destroy the man when they married if she is not happy.. Most men are like “no thanks”

Now, as ridiculous as it sounds, if a man was promised a hot 22 year old, in shape, sexy women who was virgin in exchange for being way above average, do you know how hard he work for it? Day and night.

The “averageness” of a man depends on the girls youth, and how hot she is.

exactly. The average man today is a just a product of its environment.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Most men are average because the pot at the end of the rainbow is very un-average

Yeah, the influence of MGTOW and the like has conned entirely too many of us into believing that concocting half-baked justifications for inertia = An advanced way of existing

 

[optinimus]

Red pill is a door you walk through, not a house you live in - Blackdragon. I used to watch Legion of Men for a long time , and you know what, all it did was add to my misery. Doom & gloom. I'd recommend not watching those kinds of videos

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Thnks bro, there's nothing special about me. If I did it anyone can. Without revealing too much in my earlier years I had similar spells where felt sorry for myself for one reason or another. We all have. It is easy to fall into & I get it...just can't make it your "resting place". I'd love to see & wish the fellas succes s and think it's possible but you got to be in the race in order to win. There are a growing number of on-lookers, not participants. You can't jus throw your hands up in the air and say I give up....and if you do you really have no one to blame but yourself.

Let's say you view the situation as being hopeless because you're 5 out of 10 on the looks scale (whether you really are a "5 out of 10" who knows, these smarty pants haven't taken into consideration that women will rate them differently) we 100% know there will be guys that are say 3 out of 10 out there grinding. Some will even be short, work crummy jobs on top of having a bad appearance, still they are trying because there is no other option. Eventually they will succeed because they are go-getter's. This is the right attitude.

Most guys I know, even if they’re not in the top 50%. Still get a girl. The ones who don’t either have mental health/personality disorders or are way too picky (my Hapacel friend who only wants White women, but Asian women have been interested in him).

 

[MatureDJ]

Now, as ridiculous as it sounds, if a man was promised a hot 22 year old, in shape, sexy women who was virgin in exchange for being way above average, do you know how hard he work for it? Day and night.

Beta men that had been able to do this in the past were said to have 2 marriages - one to wifey, and the other to his job, which of course was a necessary component in being able to KEEP wifey. However, that paradigm seems to be utterly lost - women at their peak Sexual Market Value waste it chasing "emotionally unavailable" Chads, but then well past the peak, try to secure the Beta man that would have more than happy to work for her. By then the Beta man looks at this woman and is not internally motivated to "man up" with her.

 

[SW15]

Beta men that had been able to do this in the past were said to have 2 marriages - one to wifey, and the other to his job, which of course was a necessary component in being able to KEEP wifey. However, that paradigm seems to be utterly lost - women at their peak Sexual Market Value waste it chasing "emotionally unavailable" Chads, but then well past the peak, try to secure the Beta man that would have more than happy to work for her. By then the Beta man looks at this woman and is not internally motivated to "man up" with her.

This is the famous Beta Bucks concept. Most males are beta males and women primarily associate with them due to their utility, which is often being employed and having a decent salary.

In the US market, Millennial women officially killed the Beta Bucks model once they reached sexual maturity in the early 2000s. The model had been fading prior to the Millennials entering the market. Millennials were the first large generation of women to spend their prime years chasing top tier men and technological advances gave them more abundance to do it.

There are still plenty of thirsty betas in the market though. These men will still Beta Bucks to get a past her prime woman.