"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Video Of Me Doing A Direct Approach 1 Year Ago, eye contact is very important

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@analytic,

yes i do know mode one, and the attitude is quite simillar

@derek,

you're right, direct is an outlook on life...

getting what you want, no excuses... the shortest way to success!

Example: In a group, I always approach the girl I like and ingore the rest and get a lot of success like that rather than befriending the whole group first. That way she feels special and her group admires me.

@Slick,

Don't read books, try it out on yourself out there...

Start telling girls in the street: "Hi. You know what...? You have a beautiful smile" and then leave... and see what happens when you tell a genuine compliment... It sparks attraction more than any gimmick out there if told from a confident point of view.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sorin

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Who is this Mikey Guy,

Join Date: 12-02-2007, Total Posts: 4 (0.01 posts per day)

He only joined to post lies about me. He has no credibility, since it's clear he's an envious guy who has not interest in this community or hasn't contributed at all and only came here to make a bad name.

Further more, on another forum he said he came to a workshop and said he paid a price that was not right, 500 EUR. I've never charged that. And also I've never had someone from the country he said he was from.

Why are some people envious and carry hatred when it's clear it's better to be silent or offer value to other people in their own way?
 

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Derek Flint said:
The naysayers will say that you can't compliment when you open, that you have to "fly under the radar" so you can "spit your game"

I didn't see the video, but I know when I use Direct method, which is a part of my lifestyle and not an opener or yeah, even a "method" that I get great reactions, even when the girl has a b/f, and might even "wing" for me and introduce me to her HB friend.

Direct works, but it is so much more than just an opener, or even a method.

You have to live it, otherwise, it won't be congruent and girls will see right thru it.

BINGO

Some call it being "congruent" others call it "mode one" I call it being "your honest self" indirect can be fun but for me I noticed I get better results going direct

Solo
 
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