"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Video Of Me Doing A Direct Approach 1 Year Ago, eye contact is very important

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@analytic,

yes i do know mode one, and the attitude is quite simillar

@derek,

you're right, direct is an outlook on life...

getting what you want, no excuses... the shortest way to success!

Example: In a group, I always approach the girl I like and ingore the rest and get a lot of success like that rather than befriending the whole group first. That way she feels special and her group admires me.

@Slick,

Don't read books, try it out on yourself out there...

Start telling girls in the street: "Hi. You know what...? You have a beautiful smile" and then leave... and see what happens when you tell a genuine compliment... It sparks attraction more than any gimmick out there if told from a confident point of view.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who is this Mikey Guy,

Join Date: 12-02-2007, Total Posts: 4 (0.01 posts per day)

He only joined to post lies about me. He has no credibility, since it's clear he's an envious guy who has not interest in this community or hasn't contributed at all and only came here to make a bad name.

Further more, on another forum he said he came to a workshop and said he paid a price that was not right, 500 EUR. I've never charged that. And also I've never had someone from the country he said he was from.

Why are some people envious and carry hatred when it's clear it's better to be silent or offer value to other people in their own way?
 
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Derek Flint said:
The naysayers will say that you can't compliment when you open, that you have to "fly under the radar" so you can "spit your game"

I didn't see the video, but I know when I use Direct method, which is a part of my lifestyle and not an opener or yeah, even a "method" that I get great reactions, even when the girl has a b/f, and might even "wing" for me and introduce me to her HB friend.

Direct works, but it is so much more than just an opener, or even a method.

You have to live it, otherwise, it won't be congruent and girls will see right thru it.
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BINGO

Some call it being "congruent" others call it "mode one" I call it being "your honest self" indirect can be fun but for me I noticed I get better results going direct

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