"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was trying to find some more videos on field tests and Cold Approaches. I found a few from Mystery and his gang, but the only other one I found was the guy in the Hat (Alex?).

If you guys know of any other ones worth watching could you reply with the link please?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ya I want to see mystery in action as well...

I know he has sum videos...

But where>?
 

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Here are some that I got from the site or searching YouTube.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=5cgmIMvgYY0&mode=related&search=
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-quMo2nOQYg&mode=related&search=
http://youtube.com/watch?v=bZA9aHKBvnA&mode=related&search=
http://youtube.com/watch?v=d8byrJlVLfI&mode=related&search=
http://youtube.com/watch?v=qs_RkQMTN-4&mode=related&search=
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PZzjExe0XsA
http://youtube.com/watch?v=TkJbumc-8FE (here is the guy in the hat)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=0aWoN8MvGKw&mode=related&search= Neil Strauss (Style) doing "5 questions"
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-6AZIn575pA Neil Strauss talking about doing online PUs.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=6Lt9N_R4l1M Neil Strauss' academy Part 1
http://youtube.com/watch?v=t7Fd2yfGMFM&mode=related&search= Part 2
http://youtube.com/watch?v=TF31wjJHVPA&mode=related&search= Part 3
http://youtube.com/watch?v=aYpIuTql0wM
I don't even know what to call this...an IDA that was supposed to be a DA? What is it with guys hitting on girls that are working and not understanding they will give you their number just to get rid of you. Hired Guns are hard to PU they are Double Defensive. One they are defensive just like everyone else, second they don't want to get into trouble at work. To get a girl that defensive takes rapport and that takes time. Which will get her into trouble with the boss (the boss might just think she is working, but she knows she isn’t and her defensis will go up)?
 

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What do you guys think of these?
 

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:woo:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's funny how people say that we make PU so much harder than it has to be, but if you watch the video's it looks so easy.

Mystery has 100% success rates in these videos and Alax's (guy in the hat) Approach is sick!

The DA video's are weak and they don't even talk to the girls. What is the point of that?

DA sucks!
 

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The DA video's are weak and they don't even talk to the girls. What is the point of that?

DA sucks!
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Yeah, I've whined before that DA posters sometimes seem a bit keyboard jockeyish. "Just walk up to a group of people in mid conversation, take the hand of the hottest girl, and say 'are you single?'".

I'm sure it can be successful in, say, Brazil or Easter Europe. Actually, I looked around, and I found some "direct approach" videos, but none were a pickup of an American or British woman. Most are not even in ENGLISH.

Finally, I just now found one!!
This guy kinds of has a shaky opener, but it's direct and it works!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zvbib04tD6s


SWEET!! Now we have something to work with.
 

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Alex is an Australian PUA, one of our boys in our local lair had a bootcamp with him, said it was real good.

That approach was excellent, he lost the attention of the friend for a bit, but managed to come out nicely.
 

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That's a great video, Phyzzle. I really like it. Honest, direct, and funny. Direct is that easy. LMAO at the guy trying to hide in the box SOLID SNAKE style!!!!
 

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Phyzzle said:
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Yeah, I've whined before that DA posters sometimes seem a bit keyboard jockeyish. "Just walk up to a group of people in mid conversation, take the hand of the hottest girl, and say 'are you single?'".

I'm sure it can be successful in, say, Brazil or Easter Europe. Actually, I looked around, and I found some "direct approach" videos, but none were a pickup of an American or British woman. Most are not even in ENGLISH.

Finally, I just now found one!!
This guy kinds of has a shaky opener, but it's direct and it works!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zvbib04tD6s


SWEET!! Now we have something to work with.
He used a Indirect-Direct Opener.... Kind of 3rd.

He also used a lot of MM. Look at his body language!

He Leans back when talking. IOD
Touches her everytime he laughs. Kino & Anchor
He stacked his opener from the 1st line to let's go...
He IOI'd her indirectly with the model question...

Over all I think that was more indirect than direct... BUT more Direct than most.

GOOD POST! NICE FIND!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lust said:
Alex is an Australian PUA, one of our boys in our local lair had a bootcamp with him, said it was real good.

That approach was excellent, he lost the attention of the friend for a bit, but managed to come out nicely.

He has mad game!
 

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Mystery is one smooth mo-fo. I think some of that stuff wouldn't work for a 'normal' type of guy though. The fact that he's tall, dark, has a Russian name, is a magician and looks different to everyone else deffo works in his favour.
 

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L777 said:
Mystery is one smooth mo-fo. I think some of that stuff wouldn't work for a 'normal' type of guy though. The fact that he's tall, dark, has a Russian name, is a magician and looks different to everyone else deffo works in his favour.
Well, what do you think how many thousands of approaches he did to get that smooth? He went out 4 times a week for 15years straight and in the beginning he went out dozens of times before he could even approach a stranger.

Before that he couldn't get laid even if his life depended on it.

ps: He has a German name, not a Russian name.
 

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this was already posted here...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qs_RkQMTN-4

but I cant get enough of it. Classic classic classic... "Its a 4 set, not a 3 set"... mehow just looks back. "Mystery!", like c'mon man, this guy aint nothing. classic.

...and by the way. Mystery's fashion sense is bad enough. But if a little tiny dude with a semi-gay sounding voice like mehow can pull girls like that, then anyone can.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My GOD that Mehow does my head in....does he actually get laid?
 

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Yea, where are all the DA videos... hmmmm....

:rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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