"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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video killed my chances?

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me and a friend were filming a video after school. in the video, im supposed to act like a retard and talk to random people and have it be believable (my friend was taping it secretly). it was for sh**s and giggles but then i started talking to this one girl. she was actually pretty cool too and i would like to talk to her again. but the thing is, she probably thinks im an idiot caus i was acting that way for the video. i know it was stupid to keep going with the act, and i know i should have stopped and been myself. do i have any chance at all and what should i do when i see her again?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Triple T

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carreyreincarnate1 said:
do i have any chance at all and what should i do when i see her again?
Show her the video with the part of you and her. Explain what you were doing. She'll laugh for sure if its funny, and you guys can go from there. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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but she already thinks im an idiot. don't girls make up their minds about you in the first meeting? sounds sketchy...
 

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Its nice idea to show her the video . She will laugh and youll come as a cool/interesting guy :D.

What bothers me is that you carry too much if you still have time to impress her . Thats where she will smell your neediness .Cmon girl , this world (fortunately) its full of HB , b!tches , ho's :D .

Keep doing it again , approaching strangers for camera of whatever you want ( give a reason to yourself to approach ) but this time dont act like a retard .
 

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if a my friend ever released a video like that i'd be pretty pissed off
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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