"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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video killed my chances?

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me and a friend were filming a video after school. in the video, im supposed to act like a retard and talk to random people and have it be believable (my friend was taping it secretly). it was for sh**s and giggles but then i started talking to this one girl. she was actually pretty cool too and i would like to talk to her again. but the thing is, she probably thinks im an idiot caus i was acting that way for the video. i know it was stupid to keep going with the act, and i know i should have stopped and been myself. do i have any chance at all and what should i do when i see her again?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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carreyreincarnate1 said:
do i have any chance at all and what should i do when i see her again?
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Show her the video with the part of you and her. Explain what you were doing. She'll laugh for sure if its funny, and you guys can go from there. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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but she already thinks im an idiot. don't girls make up their minds about you in the first meeting? sounds sketchy...
 
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Its nice idea to show her the video . She will laugh and youll come as a cool/interesting guy :D.

What bothers me is that you carry too much if you still have time to impress her . Thats where she will smell your neediness .Cmon girl , this world (fortunately) its full of HB , b!tches , ho's :D .

Keep doing it again , approaching strangers for camera of whatever you want ( give a reason to yourself to approach ) but this time dont act like a retard .
 
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if a my friend ever released a video like that i'd be pretty pissed off
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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