video: How Your Race Affects Your Dating Life as a Man

[Bokanovsky]

Black women care the most about aesthetics. An average black guy even if he is highly educated well have a terrible time dating on top of that Black women are the fattest women in America this is a fact at 57% of black women are overweight or obese. Hence the competition is fierce for black men who prefer petite black women or in shape black women. Black women are not interested in average black men at all hence "The Black Manosphere" was created and talked about a lot of issues that the white manosphere ignored for years.

You can say the same thing about other races too. An attractive, slim white woman is not going to be interested in an average-looking white dude who works as an accounting manager and drives a Chevy Equinox. Similarly, an attractive asian women is not going to want some average Asian dude who works in IT. Whether or not it's better or worse for any particular race is not clear. I imagine that men of every race think that they have it worse than men of other races.

I have seen white men punch above their weight as long as they are not fat and weird. Heck I've even seen fat white guys pull as long as they have game(and I'm not talking fat white chicks).

Anecdotally speaking, when I see black couples, they are usually a fairly even match. If the dude is fat, so is the girl. If the guy is in shape, his GF is typically also fit or at least not fat. The same observation applies to other races, including white people.

 

[SW15]

An attractive, slim white woman is not going to be interested in an average-looking white dude who works as an accounting manager and drives a Chevy Equinox.

That's correct. Accounting Manager is a solid white collar role. I did some quick Googling for Accounting Manager salaries in Dallas, TX. Depending on the source, I saw annual salaries from $92,000 - $126,000. It also takes some time in an accounting role to get to that level, so the guy making something in that salary range (more likely $92,000 - $105,000) is likely 30-45 years old. A 35 year old White Accounting Manager making $105,000 annually in Dallas is not going to be anything special to a White woman in the 21-34 year old age range in Dallas. That salary can get an above average (but not elite) 1 bedroom apartment in Dallas.

If a 35 year old Accounting Manager with a salary of $105,000 annually seduces women successfully either short term or long term, it's more so on his looks (would need to be above average, likely 7.5+) and his personality (would need to be charismatic and/or Dark Triad). Most in the accounting field have a very average personality. Driving a Chevrolet Equinox or similar class car (Subaru Forester, Toyota RAV-4, Honda CR-V) etc. is not going to hold much sway with women in general, but definitely not attractive slim White women 21-34. The only possible exception I think can where the car might help is in some other markets like Denver or Salt Lake City where the car could be used for hauling skis, snowboards, mountain bikes to some location in the nearby mountains and the woman is into those sorts of hobbies. However, even in those outdoor sports, there are more male participants. In Dallas, that class of car wouldn't mean anything because attractive, White women in Dallas aren't going to give a crap about those activities. They are more into yoga, fitness classes, lifting, and possibly running if they are slim. Basic sedans like the Toyota Camry or Honda Accord won't hold much sway with women either, and those are realistic cars for a 35 year old, $105,000 annual salary Accounting Manager in Dallas.

White men either need to up their looks or money to get with attractive, slim White women in most cases.

 

[Solomon]

You can say the same thing about other races too. An attractive, slim white woman is not going to be interested in an average-looking white dude who works as an accounting manager and drives a Chevy Equinox. Similarly, an attractive asian women is not going to want some average Asian dude who works in IT. Whether or not it's better or worse for any particular race is not clear. I imagine that men of every race think that they have it worse than men of other races.


Anecdotally speaking, when I see black couples, they are usually a fairly even match. If the dude is fat, so is the girl. If the guy is in shape, his GF is typically also fit or at least not fat. The same observation applies to other races, including white people.

I respect your opinion, but I disagree. I think Black Women win by default win due to the fact that a lot of them are dealing with what I personally would consider deal breakers

• Highest Single Mother rate In America
• The fattest group of women in America
• Highest STD rate
• Rated least attractive on dating apps

Once again, let me just say this, I'm not posting this to whine. The first thing any man has to do is understand what he's dealing with in your locality when it comes dating, the type of women there available, logistics, and also understand what men are successful and aren't. The guy in Miami wearing $15,000 blazer is probably going to look like a joke in Alabama, where that's not necessary. A black guy trying to date black women in Ames, Iowa, is probably going to struggle while a black guy trying to date women in Atlanta is having a ball. Understand your environment, learn to adapt if you don't like your environment, have an exit strategy and go where you're celebrated and not tolerated!

 

[Bokanovsky]

I respect your opinion, but I disagree.

That's alright, we don't have to agree on everything to have a respectful conversation.

I'm not going to pretend to be an expert on the black community...or any other community for that matter. I don't even understand white people half the time these days. The point that I was trying to make is that the issues you are describing transcend race and ethnicity and it is very difficult to generalize which race has it better or worse. As you said yourself, it may depend on location and various other factors.

 

[SW15]

A black guy trying to date black women in Ames, Iowa, is probably going to struggle while a black guy trying to date women in Atlanta is having a ball.

Atlanta is likely the best city in the USA for Black men seeking to date Black women.

The guy in Miami wearing $15,000 blazer is probably going to look like a joke in Alabama, where that's not necessary.

That is a good visual. A guy wearing a $15,000 blazer in Alabama would look ridiculous.

A $15,000 blazer in Miami would help a lot with seduction. I've never seen a $15,000 blazer at any venue in Dallas. There are a few venues where that might work in Dallas but in general that's not the norm.

Luxury car brands play well in both Miami and Dallas.

Understand your environment, learn to adapt if you don't like your environment, have an exit strategy and go where you're celebrated and not tolerated!

Very good advice!

 

[Redwood]

That graph you posted is similar to a study I've seen before. But you say white women are the universal beauty standard, yet in the graph, three races out of four prefer Asian women. That is consistent with what I've heard before, that men are drawn to Asian women because they are the most feminine. Races tend to migrate toward White men, except Black women, who prefer Black men. The strange thing on that graph is that it shows Asian men being attracted to Latina women, I wonder why that would be?

This is a first...?

 

[Bokanovsky]

That graph you posted is similar to a study I've seen before. But you say white women are the universal beauty standard, yet in the graph, three races out of four prefer Asian women. That is consistent with what I've heard before, that men are drawn to Asian women because they are the most feminine. Races tend to migrate toward White men, except Black women, who prefer Black men. The strange thing on that graph is that it shows Asian men being attracted to Latina women, I wonder why that would be?

I wouldn't read too much into these graphs, as the scientific methodology behind them is likely suspect.

 

[Clockwerk50]

The video is right: a guy's chances of hooking up are better when dating within his own race. But psychologically, people who often show more openness to interracial dating are driven by an intense pull toward to what they see as "exotic." While most people find new things intriguing, for some people, this interest dominates their choices.

To be more informative, the root cause for interracial dating is often internal emptiness and deep self-loathing. These individuals dislike their own origins, such as their social class (typically middle or upper) and culture, because, in reality, they simply dislike themselves. This fuels a chase for "exotic" people and adventures as a temporary escape from their perceived boring lives. You can often identify people open to this dynamic through their constant travel, homes filled with artifacts from different countries, or by their openly complaining about their own upbringing and nationality. However, this appeal fades fast, and their underlying insecurity keeps them perpetually seeking the next new thing, moving from one novel experience to another.

 

[BadBoy89]

Being an unfavorable ethnicity can be the equivalent of being approximately 2"-9" shorter

That is the most ridiculous statement in the history of Sosuave. Race has nothing to do with anything when it comes to seduction. Nothing, Its all height.

Im not white, and Ive dated Chinese, Kurdish, Persian, Filipino, Indian, Hong Kong, British, and Irish girls, And a lot of them were hot, My race has never been a factor in it, Never ever,

Im not 6’0, my height has.

 

[zekko]

This is a first...?

I didn't write that quite right. I meant to say that the graph showed that Asian men are primarily attracted to Latina women. I've never heard that before.

I wouldn't read too much into these graphs, as the scientific methodology behind them is likely suspect.

I only commented on that one because it matched a study I had seen before. Although I didn't remember the bit about Asian men and Latina women. I think the source was from an OLD site, and who swiped right or left on who. It may be suspect, but I'd be willing to bet there's some truth in there somewhere.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Redwood,
"This is a first...?"I would suggest that this is not so much preference but necessity,they are all that is available to them...Down under,our Ladies would prefer Negroid Guys,but they are very rare Birds indeed.As others observed it is not Colour,as our home grown dark people are at the very lowest rung of desirability.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Clockwerk,
"To be more informative, the root cause for interracial dating is often internal emptiness and deep self-loathing. These individuals dislike their own origins, such as their social class (typically middle or upper) and culture, because, in reality, they simply dislike themselves. This fuels a chase for "exotic" people and adventures as a temporary escape from their perceived boring lives. You can often identify people open to this dynamic through their constant travel, homes filled with artifacts from different countries, or by their openly complaining about their own upbringing and nationality. However, this appeal fades fast, and their underlying insecurity keeps them perpetually seeking the next new thing, moving from one novel experience to another."

Much of what you say is spot on,although I much prefer Asian Ladies and consider myself very patriotic....I think many of the White Ladies from privileged backgrounds who one sees at "Progressive"demonstrations are indulging in "pathological altruism".Could it be Natures way of levelling things out?






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[CornbreadFed]

I thought you were living in Nashville now. Nashville is growing and getting less redneck. People like Nashville as it is a fast growing Sun Belt US city.

It’s preppy weekend warrior type try hard redneck. Especially the carpet baggers that try hard to fit in. I don’t even consider Nashville southern because it tries too hard to be southern.

 

[CornbreadFed]

That graph you posted is similar to a study I've seen before. But you say white women are the universal beauty standard, yet in the graph, three races out of four prefer Asian women. That is consistent with what I've heard before, that men are drawn to Asian women because they are the most feminine. Races tend to migrate toward White men, except Black women, who prefer Black men. The strange thing on that graph is that it shows Asian men being attracted to Latina women, I wonder why that would be?

There’s a saying that each race has their own weaknesses to others.

White women > Black women | Asian women > White women | Latina women > Asian women | Arab Women > Latina women | Black women > Arab Women

 

[SW15]

I thought you were living in Nashville now. Nashville is growing and getting less redneck. People like Nashville as it is a fast growing Sun Belt US city.

It’s preppy weekend warrior type try hard redneck. Especially the carpet baggers that try hard to fit in.

It's likely that Nashville is getting from many places across the USA.

I'm sure Nashville gets people from nearby states like Mississippi, Alabama, Kentucky, and North Carolina. They probably split the Alabama migrants with Atlanta. The North Carolina migrants from smaller North Carolina towns are likely a small percentage, as most of them are focused on going to Charlotte and Raleigh.

Nashville gets a lot of transplants from the Northeast, Chicago/Upper Midwest areas, and some from California. Ex-Californians are going everywhere. Arizona, Metro Las Vegas, Colorado, big Texas cities, Utah, Idaho, and Montana get them as well.

I can imagine many carpet bagger transplants trying to fit in to what they think Nashville would be.

I don’t even consider Nashville southern because it tries too hard to be southern.

Your description of Nashville seems relatable to Dallas as well.

Dallas isn't really Southern at all. In the past, Texan was somewhat different than Southern. The closest to Southern in Texas has always been East Texas. East Texas has been east of Dallas-Fort Worth, east of Metro Houston, and generally east of Interstate 45 in more rural areas in between Dallas and Houston.

A lot of East Texans who don't pair off earlier in life end up in Dallas, Austin, Houston, or San Antonio as an attempt to find more mating prospects and even employment prospects. These have been mainly Whites and Blacks. Hispanics are growing in some areas of East Texas, such as the areas near Tyler.

There's more of a Southern/Texan type feel on the edges of Dallas-Fort Worth but that's not the majority of the area.

Fort Worth feels more Texan than Dallas does. The Fort Worth side of the DFW Metroplex feels different than the Dallas side. I consider Fort Worth a different mating environment and I mentioned that in the first post of the Dallas Scene thread. Dallas and the Collin County suburbs don't have much of a feel because of a lot of adult transplanting.

 

[MatureDJ]

Not true at all, black guys that do not act like the universal media portrayal of a black guy are ultimately screwed in every country they visit.

The universal media portrayal of black men is that they are thuggish criminals.

 

[MatureDJ]

There’s a saying that each race has their own weaknesses to others.

White women > Black women | Asian women > White women | Latina women > Asian women | Arab Women > Latina women | Black women > Arab Women

I can attest to this, as I have a slave-owner ancestor that evidently was so horny that in addition to his legitimate children (from which I descend), he had a set of children with one of his slaves - so I have a lot of semi-distant half-cousins from this.

 

[MatureDJ]

I have seen white men punch above their weight as long as they are not fat and weird. Heck I've even seen fat white guys pull as long as they have game(and I'm not talking fat white chicks).

If I had a choice to be an average asian guy or average white guy I would hope to be an average white guy. Asian men really have it the worst especially Indian men

I think that the use of the term "Asian" needs to be decomposed into either "South Asian" or "East Asian", as these are vastly different peoples.

I don't consider "pulling" a fat chick, even a fat white chick, as being worth of any congratulation. I mean, fat chicks are pretty much worthless.

 

[SW15]

I don't consider "pulling" a fat chick, even a fat white chick, as being worth of any congratulation. I mean, fat chicks are pretty much worthless.

Overweight White women are rarely lacking for sexual options. While White women with average range BMIs or athletic/fit women will have more abundance, overweight White women will get attention.

 

[MatureDJ]

Overweight White women are rarely lacking for sexual options. While White women with average range BMIs or athletic/fit women will have more abundance, overweight White women will get attention.

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