video: How Your Race Affects Your Dating Life as a Man

[MatureDJ]

Being an unfavorable ethnicity can be the equivalent of being approximately 2"-9" shorter

 

[CornbreadFed]

JBW bro

 

[SW15]

Attraction and seduction is based on multiple variables. Ethnicity and height are two sub variables of the overall broader looks variable.

Everything I'm about to say is based on the mating environment of the United States.

Most men do the best with prospects within their own race/ethnicity. This video acknowledged that.

White men are primarily dealing with White women. White women do not give a White man an advantage because he's White. White women are the fussiest women because they have the most abundance. White men are usually interested in White women. All non-White ethnicities tend to have interest in White women.

When Rollo Tomassi has said many times that "average women are no longer interested in interactions with average men", this is most observable with average tier White women mainly ignoring average tier White men.

Middle tier and lower tier White men do struggle to get laid.

I did find the city analysis component of the video interesting.

 

[BaronOfHair]

A single study "found" this to be "true".... We're also in the midst of a replication crisis(overused as that word is) within the social sciences. No doubt, skin color, hair texture, and facial features CAN be an obstacle, IF a fella doesn't go out of his way to mitigate potential side effects

Ex. If you're Black in The US, and aren't content to settle for a Shaneka or a Shaquonda who's already a baby mama to 8 different men, you're wise to move through the world in a more Teddy Pendergrass-esque fashion, rather than taking a block head like Young Thug as an idol

 

[CornbreadFed]

Ex. If you're Black in The US, and aren't content to settle for a Shaneka or a Shaquonda who's already a baby mama to 8 different men, you're wise to move through the world in a more Teddy Pendergrass-esque fashion, rather than taking a block head like Young Thug as an idol

Not true at all, black guys that do not act like the universal media portrayal of a black guy are ultimately screwed in every country they visit.

 

[Solomon]

White men are primarily dealing with White women. White women do not give a White man an advantage because he's White. White women are the fussiest women because they have the most abundance. White men are usually interested in White women. All non-White ethnicities tend to have interest in White women.

When Rollo Tomassi has said many times that "average women are no longer interested in interactions with average men", this is most observable with average tier White women mainly ignoring average tier White men.

Middle tier and lower tier White men do struggle to get laid.

I did find the city analysis component of the video interesting.

Disclaimer: I'm posting this through observation with data, this is not me being butthurt but merely sharing my opinion

White women are the universal beauty standard across the world. I think Asian men and black men have it the worst. With Asian women, they bash their men on social media a lot(if you are on asian social media this isn't made up even for the US)also stat's have shown on dating apps that asian women prefer white men over their own, whereas most other races prefer to date their own

Black women care the most about aesthetics. An average black guy even if he is highly educated well have a terrible time dating on top of that Black women are the fattest women in America this is a fact at 57% of black women are overweight or obese. Hence the competition is fierce for black men who prefer petite black women or in shape black women. Black women are not interested in average black men at all hence "The Black Manosphere" was created and talked about a lot of issues that the white manosphere ignored for years.

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I have seen white men punch above their weight as long as they are not fat and weird. Heck I've even seen fat white guys pull as long as they have game(and I'm not talking fat white chicks).

If I had a choice to be an average asian guy or average white guy I would hope to be an average white guy. Asian men really have it the worst especially Indian men

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[Manure Spherian]

Here’s the scale on descending order of what makes women’s hormones boil. Hopefully it will ease the never ending analysis of “what women want”.

1.Psychopathy/criminality/deviance/violence
2. Status/popularity/psychological and social acuity
3. Looks
4. Personality

Lookism is bunk.

1 and 2 show strength and power. And women override good looks if they can get at 1 and 2. The reason why some women like “the brothers” is because they are less inhibited and are shown in very positive lights in entertainment media. Middle class White guys since the 90s mimic blacks, even talk like them, because they see the icon of the lower-class black badass getting the babes and the white guy as a boring scrub. I grew up with white and Jewish guys who upon discovering hip hop in the early 90s started calling each other n—

 

[BaronOfHair]

Not true at all, black guys that do not act like the universal media portrayal of a black guy are ultimately screwed in every country they visit.

Yeah, being suave won't deter The IDF from firing a rocket up your ass and through the top of your skull, if you're walking through the streets of Gaza or/and Tehran right about now. Becoming a Christian Zionist is about the only surefire means of preventing such a tragedy

 

[CornbreadFed]

Disclaimer: I'm posting this through observation with data, this is not me being butthurt but merely sharing my opinion

White women are the universal beauty standard across the world. I think Asian men and black men have it the worst. With Asian women, they bash their men on social media a lot(if you are on asian social media this isn't made up even for the US)also stat's have shown on dating apps that asian women prefer white men over their own, whereas most other races prefer to date their own

Black women care the most about aesthetics. An average black guy even if he is highly educated well have a terrible time dating on top of that Black women are the fattest women in America this is a fact at 57% of black women are overweight or obese. Hence the competition is fierce for black men who prefer petite black women or in shape black women. Black women are not interested in average black men at all hence "The Black Manosphere" was created and talked about a lot of issues that the white manosphere ignored for years.

The only Asian and other non-black brown men complaining about women are the ones exclusively chasing white women. At the end of the day, they can always go back to Asian, Indian, Hispanic, and etc women. Black guys are pretty much SOL because black women are on average the worst out of every race. The non stereotypical black guy that gets called an "oreo"/"acting white" has it the worst out of any racial group of men because women(all races) want a "brotha", "athlete" or "Young Ninja" type of black guy. My advice for him is to adopt some black traits to not make you go full Carlton Banks and at least give you some flavor. NEVER GO FULL CARLTON BANKS!

 

[Solomon]

The only Asian and other non-black brown men complaining about women are the ones exclusively chasing white women. At the end of the day, they can always go back to Asian, Indian, Hispanic, and etc women. Black guys are pretty much SOL because black women are on average the worst out of every race. The non stereotypical black guy that gets called an "oreo"/"acting white" has it the worst out of any racial group of men because women(all races) want a "brotha", "athlete" or "Young Ninja" type of black guy. My advice for him is to adopt some black traits to not make you go full Carlton Banks and at least give you some flavor. NEVER GO FULL CARLTON BANKS!

If we are talking about the states, an Indian man is going to have a tough time trying to date other Indian women For example, in places like Idaho, Iowa, Colorado, etc. not saying they can't do it. However if you are a minority living in a minority state/city your options are already limited. The reason being is because you do not have the options as you would have in a bigger city. I know this first hand myself I never whined about it because it is what is you either adapt or go where you are celebrated and not tolerated

I do not disagree with you about asian/brown men complaining about access to white women, I actually agree with that I also agree that with black men it's the weirdest thing in no other race of men is shamed by their own people for being a well spoken man and get clowned on for trying to "sound white" only in the black community doesn't seem like intelligence or being educated as a man is shunned. Other women are taught that education is important hence for a lot of different races of women it's mandatory if you want to get with a certain caliber of woman.

I think black guys can do well but even with their own women they have to have something going for them. It is what it is

 

[Manure Spherian]

are ultimately screwed in the US.

Fixed that for you. When welfare hit the black community, the women, like other women, showed who they really wanted to screw. Not “lames” or “squares”, and that was not Urkel the bus driver or subway conductor, who they told “get yo ass outta dis house,” but Jamal the gang banger or drug dealer.

 

[Manure Spherian]

, I actually agree with that I also agree that with black men it's the weirdest thing in no other race of men is shamed by their own people for being a well spoken man and get clowned on for trying to "sound white" only in the black community doesn't seem like intelligence or being educated as a man is shunned.

This actually is in some middle class white pockets too. Or at least it was.

 

[SW15]

The only Asian and other non-black brown men complaining about women are the ones exclusively chasing white women.

At the end of the day, they can always go back to Asian, Indian, Hispanic, and etc women.

Indian and Indian-American men have a habit of exclusively trying to chase White women and then wondering why they aren't getting laid or getting into relationships.

Hispanic men have a good option with desirable Hispanic women. While not all Hispanic women are desirable, many are. There are 2 big issues with Hispanic women.

• Weight gain
• Single motherhood

Many of the Hispanic women with kids from previous relationships end up interacting with Hispanic men with kids from previous relationships.

Hispanic women aren't as fussy as White women about height in most cases. Most Hispanic women are shorter than 5'7" (5'6" and below). Average and below average height Hispanic women are accustomed to interacting with average and below average height Hispanic men.

In general, Hispanic women prefer interactions with Hispanic men. Hispanic men enjoy Hispanic women. It seems to work well.

As for me, I have chased some Hispanic women as a White man. I like the brown or light skinned Hispanic women. I am an Italian-American with ancestry from Southern Italy, so I have dark Meditteranean features. I can game Hispanic women and they can think I'm Hispanic. Culturally, I act more White, which is why I have spent more of my life focusing on White women.

I've seen fewer East Asian men trying to date White women over the years. East Asian men are likely to struggle with most White women. East Asian ancestry men and East Asian ancestry women tend to pair off in both shorter and longer term arrangements in my observations.

If I had a choice to be an average asian guy or average white guy I would hope to be an average white guy. Asian men really have it the worst especially Indian men

Agree

 

[CornbreadFed]

If we are talking about the states, an Indian man is going to have a tough time trying to date other Indian women For example, in places like Idaho, Iowa, Colorado, etc. not saying they can't do it. However if you are a minority living in a minority state/city your options are already limited. The reason being is because you do not have the options as you would have in a bigger city. I know this first hand myself I never whined about it because it is what is you either adapt or go where you are celebrated and not tolerated

In Texas, I see so plenty of Indian men with beautiful Indian women. I agree that every minority in general is better off living in a major metropolitan US city over a flyover bum fvck Egypt state. I escaped my redneck hellhole city of Nashville, TN and my SMV value literally doubled over night.

I do not disagree with you about asian/brown men complaining about access to white women, I actually agree with that I also agree that with black men it's the weirdest thing in no other race of men is shamed by their own people for being a well spoken man and get clowned on for trying to "sound white" only in the black community doesn't seem like intelligence or being educated as a man is shunned. Other women are taught that education is important hence for a lot of different races of women it's mandatory if you want to get with a certain caliber of woman.

It's not just black people that shame educated black men. I went to a majority white rich suburb school, and I was called oreo and same crap by white people too. The conservatives want a pet Shaboozey that entertains them, and the liberals want a black sjw bat they can use as a weapon. The white women that dated black men picked thugs, athletes, and brothas too lol. My dating life didn't get easier until my late twenties because I had acquired enough money & life experience to make up for my lack of black swagger lol. In essence, women want bad boys that provide fun and excitement regardless of race and Tyrone & Jamal offer that to younger women.

 

[Solomon]

In Texas, I see so plenty of Indian men with beautiful Indian women. I agree that every minority in general is better off living in a major metropolitan US city over a flyover bum fvck Egypt state. I escaped my redneck hellhole city of Nashville, TN and my SMV value literally doubled over night.



It's not just black people that shame educated black men. I went to a majority white rich suburb school, and I was called oreo and same crap by white people too. The conservatives want a pet Shaboozey that entertains them, and the liberals want a black sjw bat they can use as a weapon. The white women that dated black men picked thugs, athletes, and brothas too lol. My dating life didn't get easier until my late twenties because I had acquired enough money & life experience to make up for my lack of black swagger lol.

For Black men in America especially black men who are well spoken, educated and don't fit the "THUGGO" stereotype it's truly the UPSIDE DOWN trying to date. Even non-black women expect that b.s. (not all but a lot) There is a reason Passport bros went viral with a black man back in 2021 (Austin holleman who went viral back on Tik Tok in 2021)

 

[SW15]

I escaped my redneck hellhole city of Nashville, TN and my SMV value literally doubled over night.

I thought you were living in Nashville now. Nashville is growing and getting less redneck. People like Nashville as it is a fast growing Sun Belt US city.

I agree that every minority in general is better off living in a major metropolitan US city over a flyover bum fvck Egypt state.

Likely true. The situation is different for Whites. Whites need to live in major metropolitan US cities if they can't date through their social circles in smaller to mid-sized US cities. It's common for Whites with limited social circle options to move to bigger cities. Dallas is filled with these people.

In Texas, if you were a White person in Amarillo or Lubbock (mid-sized metros in the 250-375k population range), you have a big enough population to date. However, if you don't pair off early in life in those cities, you tend to move to bigger cities like Dallas and Houston. This is true for both men and women. In Amarillo, the women 30+ tend to be exclusively single moms. Lubbock is more difficult for dating if you aren't affiliated with Texas Tech University (undergrad or graduate).

In Texas, I see so plenty of Indian men with beautiful Indian women.

It happens. I've seen so many Indian and Indian-American men in the bougie neighborhoods/venues in Dallas continuously failing with White women. It's a common sight around Dallas due to the numerous tech companies with a presence in the region. The Indian/Indian-American men that tend to do best in Dallas are the ones who move to the Dallas area with a wife and settle in the north of Dallas, Collin County suburbs like Plano and Frisco.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Being White, as a man, is a bit of a cheat code for dating.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Black guys are pretty much SOL because black women are on average the worst out of every race

Black AMERICAN women are Ratchet/Sapphires. This isn't as pervasive among Caribbean women, and barely present among Sub-Saharan chicks

"My advice for him is to adopt some black traits to not make you go full Carlton Banks and at least give you some flavor"

Carlton would be corny in any color. That's not a matter of race. Same way today Logan Paul(Will Smith) gets the girls, yet even card-carrying Intersectionalist women find David Hogg(Carlton)less appealing than undergoing a hysterectomy, sans anesthesia

 

[Manure Spherian]

Black guys are pretty much SOL because black women are on average the worst out of every race.

They are the race of women most married to the government. Hence the most impossible to correct.

 

[zekko]

White women are the universal beauty standard across the world. I think Asian men and black men have it the worst. With Asian women, they bash their men on social media a lot(if you are on asian social media this isn't made up even for the US)also stat's have shown on dating apps that asian women prefer white men over their own, whereas most other races prefer to date their own

That graph you posted is similar to a study I've seen before. But you say white women are the universal beauty standard, yet in the graph, three races out of four prefer Asian women. That is consistent with what I've heard before, that men are drawn to Asian women because they are the most feminine. Races tend to migrate toward White men, except Black women, who prefer Black men. The strange thing on that graph is that it shows Asian men being attracted to Latina women, I wonder why that would be?