"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Victoria's secret.. job?

jdon23

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My buddy told me he used to work at this Victoria's secret a few years ago. He said it was a godsend because he got to meet so many women every day.

Anyway.. I decided to stop in there today. I was the only male in probably the whole store and there were gorgeous women looking at underwear and I caught many glimpses at me as I walked toward the main desk. I made the manager laugh and then talked to her about possibly working here. Both her and her co-worker was smiling the whole time I was talking and was eating up everything I was saying.

I left with the app, and im filing it out now. I just need a job part time- as im going to school- so I think it would be great to get paid doing nothing but looking at hot chicks.


What do you guys think??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alle_Gory

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Sounds like a sweet job. :rockon:

This thread was just to brag about the babes checking you out.... wasn't it?
 

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Beware, people are going to assume you're gay. One of my friends who looks like a gangbanger worked at Forever 21 and everyone thought he was gay.
 

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Yeah you may be thought of as a fruit. but remember...women think it's fun to shop with fruity guys
 

Warrior74

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they won't even give an application to a man at the vicky secrets around here. My homegirl works at one and says they get guys everyday in there asking for em. Hence, why they hire gay guys lol. they know the score.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jdon23 said:
My buddy told me he used to work at this Victoria's secret a few years ago. He said it was a godsend because he got to meet so many women every day.

Anyway.. I decided to stop in there today. I was the only male in probably the whole store and there were gorgeous women looking at underwear and I caught many glimpses at me as I walked toward the main desk. I made the manager laugh and then talked to her about possibly working here. Both her and her co-worker was smiling the whole time I was talking and was eating up everything I was saying.

I left with the app, and im filing it out now. I just need a job part time- as im going to school- so I think it would be great to get paid doing nothing but looking at hot chicks.


What do you guys think??
Great, if you can get it. But then you'll also get the weirdos.

Now, there are several jobs where guys would not survive if people didn't think they were gay.

Beauty pageants (where you aren't a success until you're flopping around in rainbow spandex). A lot of you're "fine" theater.

Hairdressers or stylists at the fancy salons.

And working at Claire's (if you can get the job), Victoria's Secret, that sort of place.

But, you might be able to pull it off. However, you've got to be really careful with the clients. And not always trying to get their numbers. Only thing is that you have to be professional; now, this might be a way to get more social interaction, but I think it'd be difficult to pull numbers while you're working without getting fired. Though not having worked at any of these types of stores, I don't know for a fact that this will happen, but this is my opinion.

Good luck. Hey, if you can do it, more power to you.
 

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ahhhh... the desperate lengths some of you guys will go to chase pvssy
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. I think that ideally it seems like an amazing job because of the constant flow of women... but realistically I would rather work at another place where I wouldn't be percieved as a flaming homosexual.

and desperate lengths? Lol guy im not even worried about *****, I am more focused on school right now and I thought it may be nice to have ***** come to you while you work. Why are there mad people on here that love to **** on you for no apparent reason? Lol
 

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So you get lots of eye candies everyday but aren't allowed to do anything with them?

Why would a man want to sign himself up for daily blueballs?
 

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Jitterbug said:
So you get lots of eye candies everyday but aren't allowed to do anything with them?

Why would a man want to sign himself up for daily blueballs?
Too cheap for viagra?

I know if i had this job i'd go home and pound the living **** out of my girlfriend/fbuddy.

Like, i'd break the legs, headboard, and probably the boxspring underneath i'd be so horny.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dude 2 years ago that was me-I ended up getting a job at Victorias Secret-made the girls laugh, came in way dressed up and aced my interview. The manager was like"-Most guys would be immature/giggly about working with womens panties".
Anyways I was in the back putting underwear and bras on hangars. Sh!t was crazy!-theres a certain way to hang each kind of bra. And after I finally got that done I had to put it all away-which I was clueless at being a straightguy trying to figure out where **** went. lol
Didnt work out though-it was only $5.30/hr and 30 mins from my house plus not that many hours a week. Goodluck though
 

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indeed, you won't be working in the front, you won't help females into the dressing room, and females won't ask you what your opinion is as they show you their thong.

there's better ways to meet women, like getting a higher paying job.
 

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"That sounds gay. I mean, I just want you to know this is like the first conversation of like three conversations that lead to you being gay."
 
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