"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Victoria's secret.. job?

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My buddy told me he used to work at this Victoria's secret a few years ago. He said it was a godsend because he got to meet so many women every day.

Anyway.. I decided to stop in there today. I was the only male in probably the whole store and there were gorgeous women looking at underwear and I caught many glimpses at me as I walked toward the main desk. I made the manager laugh and then talked to her about possibly working here. Both her and her co-worker was smiling the whole time I was talking and was eating up everything I was saying.

I left with the app, and im filing it out now. I just need a job part time- as im going to school- so I think it would be great to get paid doing nothing but looking at hot chicks.


What do you guys think??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alle_Gory

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Sounds like a sweet job. :rockon:

This thread was just to brag about the babes checking you out.... wasn't it?
 

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Beware, people are going to assume you're gay. One of my friends who looks like a gangbanger worked at Forever 21 and everyone thought he was gay.
 

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Yeah you may be thought of as a fruit. but remember...women think it's fun to shop with fruity guys
 

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they won't even give an application to a man at the vicky secrets around here. My homegirl works at one and says they get guys everyday in there asking for em. Hence, why they hire gay guys lol. they know the score.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jdon23 said:
My buddy told me he used to work at this Victoria's secret a few years ago. He said it was a godsend because he got to meet so many women every day.

Anyway.. I decided to stop in there today. I was the only male in probably the whole store and there were gorgeous women looking at underwear and I caught many glimpses at me as I walked toward the main desk. I made the manager laugh and then talked to her about possibly working here. Both her and her co-worker was smiling the whole time I was talking and was eating up everything I was saying.

I left with the app, and im filing it out now. I just need a job part time- as im going to school- so I think it would be great to get paid doing nothing but looking at hot chicks.


What do you guys think??
Great, if you can get it. But then you'll also get the weirdos.

Now, there are several jobs where guys would not survive if people didn't think they were gay.

Beauty pageants (where you aren't a success until you're flopping around in rainbow spandex). A lot of you're "fine" theater.

Hairdressers or stylists at the fancy salons.

And working at Claire's (if you can get the job), Victoria's Secret, that sort of place.

But, you might be able to pull it off. However, you've got to be really careful with the clients. And not always trying to get their numbers. Only thing is that you have to be professional; now, this might be a way to get more social interaction, but I think it'd be difficult to pull numbers while you're working without getting fired. Though not having worked at any of these types of stores, I don't know for a fact that this will happen, but this is my opinion.

Good luck. Hey, if you can do it, more power to you.
 

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ahhhh... the desperate lengths some of you guys will go to chase pvssy
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. I think that ideally it seems like an amazing job because of the constant flow of women... but realistically I would rather work at another place where I wouldn't be percieved as a flaming homosexual.

and desperate lengths? Lol guy im not even worried about *****, I am more focused on school right now and I thought it may be nice to have ***** come to you while you work. Why are there mad people on here that love to **** on you for no apparent reason? Lol
 

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So you get lots of eye candies everyday but aren't allowed to do anything with them?

Why would a man want to sign himself up for daily blueballs?
 

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Jitterbug said:
So you get lots of eye candies everyday but aren't allowed to do anything with them?

Why would a man want to sign himself up for daily blueballs?
Too cheap for viagra?

I know if i had this job i'd go home and pound the living **** out of my girlfriend/fbuddy.

Like, i'd break the legs, headboard, and probably the boxspring underneath i'd be so horny.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude 2 years ago that was me-I ended up getting a job at Victorias Secret-made the girls laugh, came in way dressed up and aced my interview. The manager was like"-Most guys would be immature/giggly about working with womens panties".
Anyways I was in the back putting underwear and bras on hangars. Sh!t was crazy!-theres a certain way to hang each kind of bra. And after I finally got that done I had to put it all away-which I was clueless at being a straightguy trying to figure out where **** went. lol
Didnt work out though-it was only $5.30/hr and 30 mins from my house plus not that many hours a week. Goodluck though
 

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indeed, you won't be working in the front, you won't help females into the dressing room, and females won't ask you what your opinion is as they show you their thong.

there's better ways to meet women, like getting a higher paying job.
 

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"That sounds gay. I mean, I just want you to know this is like the first conversation of like three conversations that lead to you being gay."
 
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