You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Its ok if youre glad with taking whatever you can get lol. Thats the problem with most men. Just say that youre ok with banging recently jizzed in poon. I dont think any man has a complex just because he doesnt want a chick who recently had some other dudes penis in her. Its more of a gross out factor and health issue for me.Vice said:Not going to argue with you anymore. Your assumptions are beyond silly. Glad I don't have your complex.
dude it just burns for about 1-2 weeks then goes away. not that big of a dealJaylan said:Its ok if youre glad with taking whatever you can get lol. Thats the problem with most men. Just say that youre ok with banging recently jizzed in poon. I dont think any man has a complex just because he doesnt want a chick who recently had some other dudes penis in her. Its more of a gross out factor and health issue for me.
Most men wouldn't want a woman who's been recently fvcked... the problem is - It's very safe to assume any halfway decent looking woman has at least one guy who she's banging on a regular bases (she will normally drop this guy if she finds someone to get serious with or someone to fvck her better).Jaylan said:Its ok if youre glad with taking whatever you can get lol. Thats the problem with most men. Just say that youre ok with banging recently jizzed in poon. I dont think any man has a complex just because he doesnt want a chick who recently had some other dudes penis in her. Its more of a gross out factor and health issue for me.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This is essentially what I was going to post. But Jaylan has his own limiting beliefs that I don't think will allow him to get over this, at least for a while. More girls for me then. At least we have an idea of how some guys approach women, that was fascinating.bukowski_merit said:Most men wouldn't want a woman who's been recently fvcked... the problem is - It's very safe to assume any halfway decent looking woman has at least one guy who she's banging on a regular bases (she will normally drop this guy if she finds someone to get serious with or someone to fvck her better).
So short of having a doctor inspect her for recent "jizz" - you're not going to know if ANY woman you're with has been recently jizzed in. They aren't all going to give you 'tells'. They aren't all going to be upfront about it (although i've heard of women flatly telling guys they couldn't have sex with them because they'd already had sex with someone that day.)
(Interesting note: sperm survives inside a woman for 3-5 days on average... sometimes longer (7 days) if she's ovulating; sometimes shorter (2 days) if she's not. Not sure anyone here has the "woman reading" ability to know if a woman has been banged without a condom in the last 3-5 days.)
As far as health issues: Unless you're making every woman you have sex with take a STD test; or banging nothing but true virgins - your health is always at risk when having sex... And those std tests aren't 100% accurate.
And... She could always end up being clean when she takes the test and then banging someone behind your back and catching something (im pretty sure someone on here caught something from his WIFE.)
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fvck I wish I was younger and back in school.Vice said:She touched my leg today and kept it there LOL
Right after I told her about this party i went to over the weekend
Or maybe after i invited her to an event and told her to bring her friends and her boyfriend.
Shes always smily when we pass in the halls and stuff
Vice said:A quick note: I think she wasn't into me because I kept trying to qualify myself with my stories about the Air Force.
My looks DO get the door open, and I have had girls show interest in me lately because of them. At this time it's mostly girls that I'm not that into LOL but as I work out more and more they start getting cuter. At a gay club I had a girl pinch my ass constantly, but she wasn't pretty enough to mess around with LOL. It's a good confidence booster though.backseatjuan said:Dude, I saw you over skype, you saw me over skype, unshaven and tried as fack - I get women looking at me like that, just pick the one I like. You shouldn't have any problems with women, with your looks, it should be any woman you want is yours, I have no clue why you have to qualify yourself with stories. I think you should be getting raped every time you step out of the house by groupies in lingerie that waited you all night in bushes.
Ever try to set the game aside and just chit chat to them and see where it goes?
I don't really like Ukranian/Russian girls in the US because they're materialistic and status wh*res (but I'd sleep with them) and native Ukrainians want to get married too much.backseatjuan said:My advice man, get a Ukrainian girl, because you're Ukrainian, merry and have a bunch of children. After all, can you even picture yourself with a latino, pardon afterican american, or just an american. Those women are different, spoiled, feminists, etc. Anything but real, and they can't cook. I'll quote Ice Cube, or too short, I forgot who, you'll be washing my draws and cooking me meal more than I fak. Why mess with low quality statues that can't do anything but look mediocre?!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Lol..as an acne sufferer I must call out this bullsh!t. She could be the healthiest eater in the universe and still have horrible skin. It's more of a genetic issue than anything else.I can tell she doesn't eat healthy because I can see the breakout she covers up with foundation.
I don't know man, "eating healthy" to me and "eating healthy" to you might be two vastly different things.JoeMarron said:Lol..as an acne sufferer I must call out this bullsh!t. She could be the healthiest eater in the universe and still have horrible skin. It's more of a genetic issue than anything else.
I've been cheated on and also been the guy that the girl cheated with... I'm over it.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:If its your experience that women lie about having boyfriends often then I can't argue with it. I haven't personally experience that too often. These cheating ho's just make me sick to be honest, I've gone down that road before.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.