“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Come on guys...are you telling me that you guys use Viagra? Wow...I am 40 and I can go 3-4 times in a day and with total control and hardness. But I guess my diet is a huge factor here.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Latino, here is the prelude to the LR.

Wolf, no need to be embarrassed. You'll realize that over time, I remember guys being embarrassed to buy condoms when I was a teen but overtime you realize that it doesn't matter what some stranger thinks.
 

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wolf116 said:
Cool, so viagra would probably be the way to go for a recreational user.

Would it help with whiskey d!ck or performance anxiety?
Recreational user?

You either can get it hard or you can't. There is not such thing as "recreational". If you are NOT impotent...and you are having problems with an erection...then you have something CONSIDERABLY wrong with your diet.

It is time to hit the gym and eat a healthy diet (high in zinc, etc.).

"Recreational"? Hahaha.

When I was 20, I could go up 7 times in a day!
 

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SmoothTalker said:
Lol dude, what do you eat? I'm in my 20's and three times is usually my limit.
Are you kidding me? (My question is a serious one).

If I have sex EVERYDAY...then is 1 or 2 times...sometimes 3. If I have not seen her in 3 or 4 days...and I know I am not going to see her in a while...then I can go 4 or 5 times in that day (keeping in mind that in the meantime, I would have probably masturbated).

But it is a combination of things. I have OUTSTANDING control...but also I eat very well.

I suspect that as I get older, I might decrease to two or three times. To eventually one daily. But I honestly don't see that happening any time soon.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Latinoman said:
Come on guys...are you telling me that you guys use Viagra? Wow...I am 40 and I can go 3-4 times in a day and with total control and hardness. But I guess my diet is a huge factor here.
I really don't see what the big deal is. its just an expirement thats all. Now if he was using it all the time I would say that but he isn't.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Latino, here is the prelude to the LR.

Wolf, no need to be embarrassed. You'll realize that over time, I remember guys being embarrassed to buy condoms when I was a teen but overtime you realize that it doesn't matter what some stranger thinks.
If YOU need it...buy it. If you don't need it, avoid it.

The body is the master when it come to adjustments. If you buy something you don't need...then when you truly need it...it will be useless. Because by then (years later), your body is already used to it.
 

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No I'm not kidding, I'm just honest.

Not saying you're lying, but I'm not going to be like those guys that claim they can go 15 times a day, **** for 1.5 hours each time, and have a 14 inch ****.

I'm quite sure 3 times a day is at the very least average, and if you can really go that often, you're a bit 'gifted'.
 

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lookyoung said:
I really don't see what the big deal is. its just an expirement thats all. Now if he was using it all the time I would say that but he isn't.
Experiment? Come on...don't compare laziness to "experiment".

Experiment is putting a diet and exercise regime to maximize your sexual life. THAT is experiment. And is long-lasting as it becomes a lifestyle.

Drugs are for people that need them. Especially drugs designed to influence your blood flow. Having said that...if you don't need that drug and you start using it...eventually your body will adapt. And when the time comes that you need it...it will be useless.
 

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SmoothTalker said:
No I'm not kidding, I'm just honest.

Not saying you're lying, but I'm not going to be like those guys that claim they can go 15 times a day, **** for 1.5 hours each time, and have a 14 inch ****.

I'm quite sure 3 times a day is at the very least average, and if you can really go that often, you're a bit 'gifted'.
Most of the time after the 3rd nut within a 12 hour period I am so sick of the braud I am fvcking that I don't want to fvck her again that same night.

Now I know when I was 21 I would bust a nut. And be able to get it up again within 20 seconds and keep going another round. Now it takes me a little longer to get it up between nuts. I don't know if thats an age issue or a test issue or maybe its because I had pu$$y before and it just does not excite me as much.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SmoothTalker said:
No I'm not kidding, I'm just honest.

Not saying you're lying, but I'm not going to be like those guys that claim they can go 15 times a day, **** for 1.5 hours each time, and have a 14 inch ****.

I'm quite sure 3 times a day is at the very least average, and if you can really go that often, you're a bit 'gifted'.
This is an anonymous forum. Why should I lie?

If I had problems with it...I would not even had an issue talking about it. For instance...if I am tired...I will probably go once or twice in that day.

I would tell you one thing...when my uncle was in his late 60s/early 70s (I was in my late 20s and early 30s)...he was seeing TWO women (one was his wife and the other a lover). He used to have a certain diet to keep that up (no pun intended). And the fascinating thing is that he was also a drunk. So go figure.


Now...I am a very busy man as I also work...but the days I spent with my girlfriend...it is going to be at least once a day...but time permit...could be two or three. I find her very sext, so that plays a factor too.
 

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lookyoung said:
Most of the time after the 3rd nut within a 12 hour period I am so sick of the braud I am fvcking that I don't want to fvck her again that same night.

Now I know when I was 21 I would bust a nut. And be able to get it up again within 20 seconds and keep going another round. Now it takes me a little longer to get it up between nuts. I don't know if thats an age issue or a test issue or maybe its because I had pu$$y before and it just does not excite me as much.

It is a combination of age and the fact that you know more (meaning that you are putting a greater effort and that adds to the fatigue level).
 

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I didn't say you were lying, I specifically said that I was not saying you're lying. But I'm sure we both know many peoplelie about their sex abilities, even on anonymous forums. So what is this special stamina diet?

The other factor for me is I am almost constantly tired, with school, I generally get a maxiumum of 6 hours sleep a night during the week.
 

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SmoothTalker said:
I didn't say you were lying, I specifically said that I was not saying you're lying. But I'm sure we both know many peoplelie about their sex abilities, even on anonymous forums. So what is this special stamina diet?

The other factor for me is I am almost constantly tired, with school, I generally get a maxiumum of 6 hours sleep a night during the week.
If you are constantly tired...(I don't sleep more than 6 hours a day either)...you have to find a way that when you FINALLY sleep...you sleep those 6 hours very well.

It is about exercising and eating certain type of food. I eat a lot of "ethnic" food. Particularly Asian. And more so with seafood. Pasta and all that crap gets you bloated.

But I understand your situation with school. As I think being stressed out has more to do than the fact you sleep 6 hours a day (which I believe is more than plenty of time).
 

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By the way...there are times in which I am VERY tired too (e.g. has little desired to have sex). But during those times, I still can get aroused...but I rather masturbate than actually having that sex (actual sex takes much more energy from me as I get considerably more involved mentally).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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