Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Recreational user?wolf116 said:Cool, so viagra would probably be the way to go for a recreational user.
Would it help with whiskey d!ck or performance anxiety?
Are you kidding me? (My question is a serious one).SmoothTalker said:Lol dude, what do you eat? I'm in my 20's and three times is usually my limit.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I really don't see what the big deal is. its just an expirement thats all. Now if he was using it all the time I would say that but he isn't.Latinoman said:Come on guys...are you telling me that you guys use Viagra? Wow...I am 40 and I can go 3-4 times in a day and with total control and hardness. But I guess my diet is a huge factor here.
If YOU need it...buy it. If you don't need it, avoid it.MacAvoy said:Latino, here is the prelude to the LR.
Wolf, no need to be embarrassed. You'll realize that over time, I remember guys being embarrassed to buy condoms when I was a teen but overtime you realize that it doesn't matter what some stranger thinks.
Experiment? Come on...don't compare laziness to "experiment".lookyoung said:I really don't see what the big deal is. its just an expirement thats all. Now if he was using it all the time I would say that but he isn't.
Most of the time after the 3rd nut within a 12 hour period I am so sick of the braud I am fvcking that I don't want to fvck her again that same night.SmoothTalker said:No I'm not kidding, I'm just honest.
Not saying you're lying, but I'm not going to be like those guys that claim they can go 15 times a day, **** for 1.5 hours each time, and have a 14 inch ****.
I'm quite sure 3 times a day is at the very least average, and if you can really go that often, you're a bit 'gifted'.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This is an anonymous forum. Why should I lie?SmoothTalker said:No I'm not kidding, I'm just honest.
Not saying you're lying, but I'm not going to be like those guys that claim they can go 15 times a day, **** for 1.5 hours each time, and have a 14 inch ****.
I'm quite sure 3 times a day is at the very least average, and if you can really go that often, you're a bit 'gifted'.
lookyoung said:Most of the time after the 3rd nut within a 12 hour period I am so sick of the braud I am fvcking that I don't want to fvck her again that same night.
Now I know when I was 21 I would bust a nut. And be able to get it up again within 20 seconds and keep going another round. Now it takes me a little longer to get it up between nuts. I don't know if thats an age issue or a test issue or maybe its because I had pu$$y before and it just does not excite me as much.
If you are constantly tired...(I don't sleep more than 6 hours a day either)...you have to find a way that when you FINALLY sleep...you sleep those 6 hours very well.SmoothTalker said:I didn't say you were lying, I specifically said that I was not saying you're lying. But I'm sure we both know many peoplelie about their sex abilities, even on anonymous forums. So what is this special stamina diet?
The other factor for me is I am almost constantly tired, with school, I generally get a maxiumum of 6 hours sleep a night during the week.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.