"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Viagra
- Thread starter MacAvoy
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
MacAvoy
Banned
Wolf, no need to be embarrassed. You'll realize that over time, I remember guys being embarrassed to buy condoms when I was a teen but overtime you realize that it doesn't matter what some stranger thinks.
Recreational user?wolf116 said:Cool, so viagra would probably be the way to go for a recreational user.
Would it help with whiskey d!ck or performance anxiety?
You either can get it hard or you can't. There is not such thing as "recreational". If you are NOT impotent...and you are having problems with an erection...then you have something CONSIDERABLY wrong with your diet.
It is time to hit the gym and eat a healthy diet (high in zinc, etc.).
"Recreational"? Hahaha.
When I was 20, I could go up 7 times in a day!
Are you kidding me? (My question is a serious one).SmoothTalker said:Lol dude, what do you eat? I'm in my 20's and three times is usually my limit.
If I have sex EVERYDAY...then is 1 or 2 times...sometimes 3. If I have not seen her in 3 or 4 days...and I know I am not going to see her in a while...then I can go 4 or 5 times in that day (keeping in mind that in the meantime, I would have probably masturbated).
But it is a combination of things. I have OUTSTANDING control...but also I eat very well.
I suspect that as I get older, I might decrease to two or three times. To eventually one daily. But I honestly don't see that happening any time soon.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I really don't see what the big deal is. its just an expirement thats all. Now if he was using it all the time I would say that but he isn't.Latinoman said:Come on guys...are you telling me that you guys use Viagra? Wow...I am 40 and I can go 3-4 times in a day and with total control and hardness. But I guess my diet is a huge factor here.
If YOU need it...buy it. If you don't need it, avoid it.MacAvoy said:Latino, here is the prelude to the LR.
Wolf, no need to be embarrassed. You'll realize that over time, I remember guys being embarrassed to buy condoms when I was a teen but overtime you realize that it doesn't matter what some stranger thinks.
The body is the master when it come to adjustments. If you buy something you don't need...then when you truly need it...it will be useless. Because by then (years later), your body is already used to it.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Not saying you're lying, but I'm not going to be like those guys that claim they can go 15 times a day, **** for 1.5 hours each time, and have a 14 inch ****.
I'm quite sure 3 times a day is at the very least average, and if you can really go that often, you're a bit 'gifted'.
Experiment? Come on...don't compare laziness to "experiment".lookyoung said:I really don't see what the big deal is. its just an expirement thats all. Now if he was using it all the time I would say that but he isn't.
Experiment is putting a diet and exercise regime to maximize your sexual life. THAT is experiment. And is long-lasting as it becomes a lifestyle.
Drugs are for people that need them. Especially drugs designed to influence your blood flow. Having said that...if you don't need that drug and you start using it...eventually your body will adapt. And when the time comes that you need it...it will be useless.
Most of the time after the 3rd nut within a 12 hour period I am so sick of the braud I am fvcking that I don't want to fvck her again that same night.SmoothTalker said:No I'm not kidding, I'm just honest.
Not saying you're lying, but I'm not going to be like those guys that claim they can go 15 times a day, **** for 1.5 hours each time, and have a 14 inch ****.
I'm quite sure 3 times a day is at the very least average, and if you can really go that often, you're a bit 'gifted'.
Now I know when I was 21 I would bust a nut. And be able to get it up again within 20 seconds and keep going another round. Now it takes me a little longer to get it up between nuts. I don't know if thats an age issue or a test issue or maybe its because I had pu$$y before and it just does not excite me as much.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is an anonymous forum. Why should I lie?SmoothTalker said:No I'm not kidding, I'm just honest.
Not saying you're lying, but I'm not going to be like those guys that claim they can go 15 times a day, **** for 1.5 hours each time, and have a 14 inch ****.
I'm quite sure 3 times a day is at the very least average, and if you can really go that often, you're a bit 'gifted'.
If I had problems with it...I would not even had an issue talking about it. For instance...if I am tired...I will probably go once or twice in that day.
I would tell you one thing...when my uncle was in his late 60s/early 70s (I was in my late 20s and early 30s)...he was seeing TWO women (one was his wife and the other a lover). He used to have a certain diet to keep that up (no pun intended). And the fascinating thing is that he was also a drunk. So go figure.
Now...I am a very busy man as I also work...but the days I spent with my girlfriend...it is going to be at least once a day...but time permit...could be two or three. I find her very sext, so that plays a factor too.
lookyoung said:Most of the time after the 3rd nut within a 12 hour period I am so sick of the braud I am fvcking that I don't want to fvck her again that same night.
Now I know when I was 21 I would bust a nut. And be able to get it up again within 20 seconds and keep going another round. Now it takes me a little longer to get it up between nuts. I don't know if thats an age issue or a test issue or maybe its because I had pu$$y before and it just does not excite me as much.
It is a combination of age and the fact that you know more (meaning that you are putting a greater effort and that adds to the fatigue level).
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
The other factor for me is I am almost constantly tired, with school, I generally get a maxiumum of 6 hours sleep a night during the week.
If you are constantly tired...(I don't sleep more than 6 hours a day either)...you have to find a way that when you FINALLY sleep...you sleep those 6 hours very well.SmoothTalker said:I didn't say you were lying, I specifically said that I was not saying you're lying. But I'm sure we both know many peoplelie about their sex abilities, even on anonymous forums. So what is this special stamina diet?
The other factor for me is I am almost constantly tired, with school, I generally get a maxiumum of 6 hours sleep a night during the week.
It is about exercising and eating certain type of food. I eat a lot of "ethnic" food. Particularly Asian. And more so with seafood. Pasta and all that crap gets you bloated.
But I understand your situation with school. As I think being stressed out has more to do than the fact you sleep 6 hours a day (which I believe is more than plenty of time).
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.