Very Wise Words

[Sart]

Some of the guys who post in here really know their stuff. Clooney and Player Supreme jump to mind. I am a chump but I dont think I always was. I had a stated aim to avoid serious committment prior to 35 because I figured that by then I could easily dictate terms because NOBODY could question my success.

As a result I had a few hot dates a couple of semi serious relationships and my marriage, well, she made all the moves. By DEFAULT I was DJ, I just didn't know it. It wasn't my aim, my aim was to build success.

To the young guys chasing down a relationship, whats the rush? In my era, after a date you would be asked "does she suck the bat?" These day, they ALL do, they have been taught via internet, Eminem and Madonna at age 14 that sex is good. WHAT AN ERA!

A big issue is that, if you look after yourself, you look better and are more appealing on more levels as you get older, whereas women don't. Its true, a man can pull a Harrison Ford, Sean Penn, most women just cant age as well. So, what is your rush?

I BECAME an AFC via two words..."yes dear"...ANYTHING for peace! This site and some of the people in here have given me a huge wakeup call...thanks to them by the way.

It will take time BUT, you can get it back. If you are young, dont let it happen to you.

By the way, the VERY WISE WORDS are not mine, just some of the men in here have siad some good stuff. I am an AFC dont forget.

I will always be an AFC toward certain women because I DO have to mentor young people as part of what I do. I am fine with that, it was never an issue. The thing is to not be an AFC to women you want to BE with in a sexual way. DO NOT let yourself be turned into one by your wife is my major thrust.

 

[Player_Supreme]

You have a long road ahead of you Sart. Here are some ideas to thing about from the pimp game:


It’s pimp or be pimped in this world.


In the world of business you have a company. The head or CEO is the pimp. The managers are the bottom *****es. The ho’s are the employee’s. The Johns are the customers. The pimp rarely talks or spends time with the ho’s, instead he spends his time with the managers to make sure the business is on track. Rarely will he go out and party with the ho’s (employee’s).


In every situation that you enter you will either pimp or be pimped. I was talking to my buddy who is a beginner in this game. He has a coffee date setup . I explained to him that either he will pimp this girl ie; get past her road blocks and talk his way into copping her, or she will pimp him.... get him to accept her contract ie let’s be friends first and shyt.


I was further explaining to him that when he goes into movie or tv deals he is either going to have to pimp or get pimped by the stations or producers who hire him.

Back to his coffee date. I told him that he was going to have to raise above the just getting ***** goal and to focus on enjoying the game, in order to take the pressure of himself and to allow him to relax.

In Mickey Royals book he talks about having to give up your loves and lusts. He stated that a pimp is not impressed by money, sex, or items of self indulgence. A pimp must raise above everything in his life.

The masses are ho’s and tricks who are subconsciously driven by their insecurities and inadequacies while they meander down the road of life. The pimp is the awakened one who sees what is really going on and uses his sight to get what he wants out of life.

Pimps really are born not made. If the game is in you then it will manifest itself. You just need game (an arena or forum) to bring it out. You sharpen and hone your game by going out their and playing on the field of life. Whether it’s actual pimping of a ho or just copping the punany or making business deals,it’s still a game.

I further explained to my buddy that when you are in the heat of laying your mack down your brain spins so much faster than normal. Your observation and thinking skills elevate themselves. You say the right words more often than not. When you **** up you quickly correct the situation and bring it back on course during your convo’s.

It is in this heat that the metal that you have inside will be forged and made into what it will be. Pimp or Symp. In the fire your sword will be sharpened and shaped. There is no other way. There is no istant game pill to take. No going from start to "Park Place" with one leap.

Mickey Royal stated that “To peep game means to see something for exactly what it is, to read between the lines-to properly assess a situation because you must peep game before entering.”

For me my desire is not for catching pu..ssy. My desire is to obtain control over a biatch, because either you have it or she does. There is no equality in this world.

I truely pity those fools who think that a relationship is all about equality. Those idiots are blind and cannot see. Nature has set us up to keep things in balance. Even though the original needs for this balance are no longer neccessary, it's still in the genes of men and women.

To bow down to a woman is out of balance and you will only create a bytch out of her. Because she is now out of balance.

The only way to develop game is to crawl into the game and wait tables until you can walk in and be seated like a prince. My buddy is at the waiting on tables stage. Watching what I do, how I do it and shyt like that. But you gotta crawl before you can walk. Every eagle falls until he learns to soar.

There’s only one game and the game is pimping. You can pimp or be pimped, it’s your choice. Either your in the game or at the game. By stepping up to play, you gain control over yourself and others.

That applies to all aspects of life. It doesn't matter if you work in a call center, or at a large bank.

There is only one game and that's pimping!


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"....a pimp is simply a real man. A man that had total control over his desires and emotions at all times. He doesn't allow himself to become a servant to p*ssy but instead to control and dominate it as only a Master can"

--The Pimps Rap

 

[Sart]

And I know it

Actually mate I will probably never quite make the grade, I can just work on improving what I can. The sad fact is that some of it is genetic and some is nurture. So, a guy who is naturally over protective and sensitive and was raised by 3, yes 3 strong women has a few issues at pimping.

I have a strong aggression toward men and a massive protectiveness toward women, hell I even grimace when I read the words hoe and slut and beeitch. BUT, I do know that what you are saying holds a lot of truth and I am applying as much as I can without acting. Acting would stuff it up.

As for men, I have no fear of men at all. I can respect men, I can tell a good looking man from an unnatractive man, can tell a strong one from a weak one, but I have no fear of them. WOMEN? I don't really have a clue....but Sir...I AM learning. Thanks for your input too, I appreciate it.

 

[CLOONEY]

Sart, good stuff, u are starting to think for yourself!

I personally dont beleive that what you are you are, like u keep on stating. U are what u choose to be and as pooks famous saying goes "as you think you shall become". U can make yourself anything you truly want to be. But the most important thing is to realise exactly what it is you want. Then it is a slow transformation process of which u set small goals along the way, until you have acheived your ultimate goal. Of which by now, is just another goal in your life, as u then have further and further things u wish and are going to acheive. Its all about knowing what u want and going all out for it! No holding back.

Another awesome saying, cant remember how it goes, but is very important is that u change what u can (and want to), realise what u cant change and ACCEPT it, and be able to tell the difference between the two. My words dont do justice to the saying, but its very important to life as you reach for your goals.

Keep at it man! U sound like deep down u are very in-touch with your innerself. U simply talk yourself down. U KNOW u can get a LOT of beautiful, funny, caring, nice woman! U simply have to realise this is in your subconcious and stop conciously trying to deny it by talking yourself down! Realise u are the prize and start acting accordingly! Things will slowly but surely come together as you practice in the field. Dont let anything set u back! Now stop calling yourself an AFC!

Good luck mate!