"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Very un-dj like move..how to recover?

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In my LTR...i admit i've toned down the DJ skills a bit, but nothing like an AFC. I keep my cool, but i'm also a lot more sensitive of a boyfriend then that of a DJ....but its been working out..celebrating a year together.

Anyway--i really messed up when were on the phone discussing what resturant we would go too...i made her name choices then I chose and asked how it was..she even questioned my masculinity when i "couldnt make a decesion". Do I make an good excuse about it and recover, or forget it..or do somtin to show im no wuss

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't think too much about it. What's done is done, learn from your mistakes.
 
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an afc thing to do would be to go overboard trying to compensate for it. its already done, like WC2 said. keep moving forward, shouldnt be a problem
 
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Were only human man. Its ok to flub up once in awhile. As long as no bad habits are gained. Actually like any mistake you make, move on. Don't dwell.
 
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